I went out with guy 'A' for about 5 months, but i didn't love him(?) and ended it, even though he begged for another chance, it was just too upsetting. He was so sweet, he used to buy me flowers and stuff just to be nice. However, he said he loved me and would always love me, but i told him to move on because i wanted him to change bit it was hurting too much giving him so many chances. I cried a few times after it, but nothing awful, and just moved on quite easily...there's only one guy i ever loved(guy B) and we split up years ago, but we are best friends, and have been in love again for a while. However, i feel myself distancing myself from B and dont know why. Tonight, my ex(guy A) from about a month and a half ago, brought a new girl to our party and it upset me for some reason. A few weeks ago when another girl made a move on him i cried and made an *** of myself. I thought i loved B, who my first love. Guy A was flirting before she appeared and called me 'cute'.Whats going on??
2006-10-18 11:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a variety of love feeling.
2006-10-18 11:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its too early for any kind of deep relationships. Fall in love in a hurry and you will end up regretting at leisure.
Why all this botheration? Instead be a strong headed girl who knows where her interests lie. Look to the long term. Nothing much is revealed in the short run.
Just have many friends now. The right guy will automatically match up with you. Or else everything will lead to heartburn which can be very well avoided.
Have a wide circle of friends and socialize.
You will get to know how things are ... how the guys are.... what pitfalls to avoid.
The guy you finally marry must be for keeps which means some effort on your part from the very beginning.
2006-10-18 19:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by prad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a guy's feelings for you drag you up or down. It sounds like you were used to him thinking so much about you and loving you. But when another girl came into picture, you got hurt.
For what? You were the one who let him go. His world doesn't revolve around you and everyone needs some lovin' some time.
YOu weren't in love with him before and you aren't in love with him now. You are in love with LOVE....
You know, the feeling you received, but not the person you received it from. It doesn't mean a lot if the love was one way (him loving you back then).
Hope you get my meaning.
2006-10-18 18:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by denh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant turn off like a light switch. If there was and still is feelings, thats the way it is. If the feelings are genuine, they will remain maybe forever, moving on to another partner does not magically remove these feelings. Maybe thats why so many songs revive these feelings, So many songs can cause one to remember some moments spent together, even though you have parted. Thats Life.
2006-10-18 18:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by phunnguy345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely yes my dear...your jealous...why you feeling that when you don't have feelings for him?coz you still care for him though not love.Calling you cute is a sign that he too still have feelings for you...thats what makes it wonderful and at the same time frustrating coz he has already someone.But for a guy like me i find that situation very challenging...if i were in your shoe.Wanna give him another chance...?
2006-10-18 19:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you care more for guy A then you even think! You wanted him to keep flirting with you! Flirt back with him!-A
2006-10-18 18:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-18 18:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by dark angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋