I don't come across as lacking, and I'm slowly breaking out of my shell more and more, but deep down inside I almost care about what people thing of me too much. It sounds stupid, but I just wish i had more guts and confidence in myself. How does one go about doing this?
2006-10-18 11:45:02 · 6 answers · asked by The Nice Guy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Oi. You're wrong in the wrong section for this.
You kind of have to force it on yourself. Tell yourself everyday, "I'm a strong, confident being, and nothing short of natural timing shall kill me off!"
Eventually, you'll brainwash yourself to believe it, and will slowly change til it's almost practically true.
:)
- 16 yo Pagan
2006-10-18 11:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Myrkr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many approaches to gaining confidence. One of those is getting a positive attitude. Try looking at http://positiveattitude.hammocksurvivalguide.com/
It's got loads of articles on the subject.
2006-10-19 09:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink lots of caffeinated products and stay awake for 3 or 4 days until you get yourself a guardian spirit. Caution: This procedure may cause a change in your personality... but that is what you were after... wasn't it?
2006-10-18 18:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by eantaelor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start working out with a good diet. You will look better and so your confidence will grow.
2006-10-18 18:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drink....no, no...just kidding!!!
try doing things to stretch yourself, like :
go to a movie by yourself
go to a restaurant by yourself
make it a point to greet everyone you pass with at least a smile and maybe a "hi, how are ya?"
talk to a stranger - like someone in an elevator
2006-10-18 18:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Agent99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thet this site is wery helpfull http://www.theaones.com/hypnosis.htm
2006-10-22 11:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋