Ive been dating this guy for a month now(but have known him for a year) and weve really grown close. Im jus out of high school from the "cirlcle yes or no" stage but Im wondering do people officially ask you to be steady still once your older or is it an "we just know' thing. I want to ask but im kinda chicken and hesitating.......
2006-10-18 11:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by almond_eyes84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't necessarily say it's a "we just know thing". If you really want to know then ask him. It's not going to freak him out because you are in fact dating. Just ask him, "so is this exclusive or are we just being casual."
2006-10-18 11:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess when you get older, you just kinda know. But there's nothing wrong with asking how official things are. There are always little questions you can playfully ask to find out.
I'd say take things slow, it's only been a month.
2006-10-18 11:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's assumed but you have to know the signs. When the two of just do stuff together without thinking about it or planning, you're "Official". You're past the "Yes or no" stage so leave that philosophy at the door. Good luck!!
2006-10-18 11:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is ask him what he thinks. I don't' think boys really ever ask you to go steady with them any more. so just sit down with him and talk to him see what his feelings are? you might be surprised! Good luck and don't be scared if you truly like him and he likes you then their should be no worry's.
2006-10-18 11:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by tygereyez03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just say "So are we going steady now?" He'll know what you're asking. As a general rule, adults don't look at it that way.
2006-10-18 11:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gene Rocks! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm 33 and I was sort of confused because it wasn't really made official. So I asked him one night... I just said, are you my man now or something? He said, yeah.
2006-10-18 11:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a relationship (when your older) is a continuous evolutionary process. No words have to be spoken, you just know.
2006-10-18 11:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him "It's important to me to know I'm the only one. I'm not dating anyone else are you? So am I the only one?" som thing to that effect.
2006-10-18 11:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by BigKilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never assume.
If it was never said, I would've had many EXs by now lol.
I think you have to be direct to actually know.
2006-10-18 11:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not official until you have both agreed to it verbally.
2006-10-18 11:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋