I freeze up and won't even approach any. Don't think I'm like 14 or 16. I am 34~!!! HELP...
2006-10-18 11:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Move to Scotland or Ireland. There are many women with red hair there and most of them are as shy as you.
2006-10-18 11:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would recommend the Scandinavian variety of redhead. We tend to be a bit morbid (Swedish ones mostly for some reason) but are generally a friendly lot. But not that friendly, so get your mind out of the gutter.
No moving to foreign lands required for this, as there are plenty of us roaming about California and various parts of the Mid-West USA with impunity.
And, uh, good luck. Also try stocking your pockets with vodka and smoked salmon. We dig that stuff.
~Morg~
(Who says calling her "Red" is unimaginative and a quick way to get maced. And then kicked while you're down. Friendly is one thing, stupid is another.)
2006-10-18 18:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by morgorond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a redhead, I feel I'm no different than any other girl. What about redheads makes you freeze up? You don't need feel that we are unapproachable. Try being friends with one, it may help you relax some.
2006-10-18 19:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm a red head. I think you must be intimitated by confronting something that you like so much. Maybe if you can become friends with a red head and go on from there. Talking to a red head is just like talking to any other person, the only difference is the color of our hair.
2006-10-18 18:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by samanny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to blondes or brunettes? I mean, I'm not a blonde or a brunette, but I imagine its not that much different talking to me than talking to anyone else. Hell, in a way, you just talked to me now. Now go out there and talk to some more read headed girls!
(And I cant speak for all redheads, but calling me 'red' is not a good way to pick up on me.)
2006-10-18 18:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by kittiesandsparklelythings 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pretend your 14 or 15. A red-headed girl is no different than a girl with any other colored hair.
2006-10-18 18:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny Yin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first try to figure out why you freeze up when approaching a red head, and go from there.
2006-10-18 18:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by judy m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u really like their hair
or have some sort of shyness from liking them
btw its ok some ppl have different things that freeze them up
i freeze in front of authority figures
2006-10-18 18:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,m already old and i,ve traveled quiet a lot, but i have probably never seen ove one hundred natural red haired women who had realy pretty hair. bought in a bottle redheads are a dime a dozen.any honky-tonk is lousy with them!
2006-10-18 18:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what i do treat them like a friend so you tell your self that there is no reasion to freeze up. become good friend when you fell the time is right then ask her to go to diner and a movie. from then on its all up hill.
2006-10-18 18:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by scarry people 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋