my boyfriend of 7 years admitted to me that he has been cheating for 2 of those years. and the only reason i never found out was because i decided to go to college. schoolwork swamped me and i barely had any time for our personal relationship. he only told me because he and his mistress split and now he thinks maybe we be together again, I say no but i'm too much in love with him to break up. but i need to get him away from me for a while. do you think i should or shouldn't leav him?
2006-10-18 11:21:57 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Rayyhol♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave his stupid, cheating, butt.
He is going to do it again.
He is a liar...how do you know that he is telling the truth about anything? If you can't trust a guy that you have been with for 7 years, then as hard as it is...you HAVE to end it...
2006-10-18 11:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's easiest to make these kinds of decisions after you have left a person. If you know that he cheated on you when you were away in school, there's no telling if he would do it again or not. So tell him you need time to think. If you really can't break up with him, ask him if you two can take a break. If you find out he was cheating again, it's over. If he respects your choice and waits until you're comfortable with him again, then it would seem that he's learned his lesson and you're the one he wants. The longer you stay with him now though, the more your feelings are going to interfere with your thoughts. Make a move, it will be best for you.
2006-10-18 11:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave him yet, just tell him you need time to clear your head. I'll recommend meeting a friend and take a couple of dates, after the dates if you still think about your boyfriend then that is where you should be but definitely take a break, after all he cheated so you deserve it.
2006-10-18 11:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For sure leave him. He cheated on you now and he will cheat on you again. IF he truly loved you he would had never cheated on you. Its hard telling how many more he had cheated on you with. You don't need him. You just get good grade and make something of yourself. May be you might fine a nice young man from college. You never know.
2006-10-18 11:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should think about it. So that you will be confident of your decision. Then make your choice. And live with it.
But from my experience: Once a cheater always a cheater.
Good Luck.
2006-10-18 11:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by IBCONNIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell....Thats what everyone told me to do when I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me....it doesn't work....When you find the right answer let me know. Thanks
2006-10-18 11:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by MCB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonder why he left you in the first place??????? Stick to your schoolwork and grow up!!!............
(TAKE A LOOK AT THE REST OF HER QUESTIONS)
2006-10-18 12:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! he is not worth your time.....Also he is only getting with you cause he is alone
2006-10-18 11:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him then dont break up with him you were busy with school and had no time for him give him another chance
2006-10-18 11:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissbunny85 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just take a break
2006-10-18 11:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋