I had a bad argument with my wife and I slapped her quite hard on the head. What's a good way to make up?

Question

She seems ok now, but still pissed off at me even though 2 days have passed.

Answer 1

Sign up for an anger management course. It's NEVER ok to get physical.

Answer 2

You want mans opinion here you go.
First to all those that say you are an *** and deserve to die IGNORE them we make mistakes and trully if anyone of them have never done anything they were ashamed of I think the world just might be perfect but it isn't. Second you aren;t going to be able to make it right so you need to accept and move on. We learn. So read on and find what you need to do.

Short of her coming after you with a weapon for you ever to HIT her is out of line. We (men) were made bigger and stronger for a reason. That reason, we are to die before we let harm fall to a woman or child. You have broken this law. How ever you feel doesn't matter what matter is how the woman you struck feels and that is all that matters. You, go get help for your anger even if this is so unlike you and you have a hundred reason that it is not your fault. YOU HIT HER. Not acceptable.Can't afford help? Then march your *** into a church and tell them that you NEED to get someone to talk with. And you ,let your wife know that you think she might need to talk to someone, because of all the people involved she is most important. Mistakes happen things happen, but you need to accept responsibility for your asinine action and GET HELP!! Boy must have been a real comfortable experience for the young lady. Probably one she WILL NEVER FORGET! Oh and flowers seem to be an odd choice but whatever. I think humbling yourself might be better than any flowers. Nothing like her looking at a vase and remembering all she had to do to get flowers was take one in the face.

Answer 3

First of all there is no excuse for what you did. No matter what.You have a problem and need help. I don't blame her for being mad. I just hope that you are not a sound sleeper. As far as I'm concerned there would be no making up you should have walked away. It just kills me when men hit women and then want a solution for what they did. What's going to happen the next time you two have an argument?

Answer 4

the best way for you to make amends? Here it is. Don't delay, you want to remedy this situation immediately. First, call your local mortuary and tell them that they will have a pick-up at your home address. Dont bother with information about who, it isnt important right now, just be sure that they know to come to your home ASAP. Also, maybe call 911 and request that the coroner be sent to your home as well. Really, save your wife the trouble of having to do this, as you dont want to burden her any further.

Take your wife in front of your home, to where your car is parked. Open the driver's door and ask her to get comfy in the front seat. Hand her the keys and ask her to put them into the ignition and start the vehicle.
Next, you, the wonderfully loving man that you are, lay down behind the rear wheels, sure to place your head directly next to the tire. Yell to her to put the car into reverse and accelerate backwards. I think this will solve anything and all will be forgiven for your misdeeds. Good bye.

Answer 5

First off, your wife DID NOT DESERVED to be slapped. Just because you are in an argument doesn't mean you slap her! Would you have liked to be slapped on the head just for pissing her off? I don't think you would. I'm kind enough not to turn you in, because if I knew your real name, I WOULD! You need to learn self control, and give your anger to God.

Answer 6

Quite frankly I don't know why either of you is still there? YOU should be in jail and she should be taking up temporary residence somewhere else until she can find a more suitable place to live.

What you did is at BEST illegal. Even if you didn't go to jail you just started the erosion of trust your wife had in you.

Bye.

Peace.

Answer 7

Well dude, what kind of a bloke are you?... The best thing you could do if you are really feeling bad, down to your heart, then go down on your knees, ask her if she could forgive you...don't you dare shed croc's tears. Getting this thing in your head...its better not to do wrong then do wrong and repend about it... However wrong she can be, no need to get physical. Don't show your manhood like this...show your manhood in your bedroom with love and care. Next time if you ever get that angry that you want to get physical, run straight into the bathroom look at your angry face and say "Are you REALLY you??" Slap yourself hard on your face till it bleeds and stare at yourself again....then ask how do you feel.

Answer 8

First, get on your knees and thank God it was not me or another woman with my views or you would have sustained very serious injuries when I defended myself. (Believe me, I am not joking) You have no right to hit her at any time for any reason, you are less than a man. You need to get counseling and anger management. There is no good way to make up for what you did. I really hopes she gets up the nerve to leave you.

Answer 9

what in the heck makes you think you have a right to raise a hand againt anyone ?
you should go see a shrink to get rid of your violence !
if ,i were her ? you would not get a chance to make up !
a man is much stronger than a woman !and that is a shame that you used your use your strength against any other human being !!!!!

Answer 10

What you can do is get out of her life. Take a huge leap off a bridge. Dance naked in front of the police station tauting "cops are pigs" or just go check yourself into a rehab center for the jerk of the month club. Thanks for the opportunity to say that.