so i have this friend who i asked out back in january. she said no but we have grown very close since then. normally when a girl tells me know i drop it. but we go to dinner, movies, and she even took me on a picnic. we are going to a concert soon . i wanna kiss her. is it a good idea? and if so what should i say to her before i do it?
2006-10-18 11:00:50 · 15 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kiss her. What's the worst that could happen?
2006-10-18 11:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, just end the friendship. Your the "good friend" that will never get anywhere. If she likes/liked you then things would have progressed by now.
As long as you stay friends, she will never give you what you want. She will meet a guy that she does like and tell you all about him. That's going to make you feel like crap and your self esteem is going to hit the floor.
She knows you like her and if she felt the same then you would have already kissed by now. Sorry guy, but your the "good friend" for her. It sucks, I've been down that road.
The best thing you can do is slowly distance yourself from her. Don't do it fast because then you will really miss her and second guess the situation. Do it slowly and find other things to do or focus on another girl.
It's a growing experience and when this is all said and done, you will be stronger and wiser and won't fall into this trap again.
Be strong...
2006-10-18 18:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thou shalt not ask for a kiss, but take one. Kiss her during a slow song at the concert.
2006-10-18 18:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and if she asks why you did it tell her how you feel about her and you were looking for that special spark. You will know when the time comes. Sometimes it is best when you say nothing at all.
2006-10-18 18:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might ask her if she considers one of your events as a date or not.
The first kiss is always the most hazardous. We don't like rejection so it's a risk.
But, if you never try, especially with someone who you like and you feel likes you, then you never develop more mature relationships.
2006-10-18 18:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss the girl
if you are that close whatever you do she might like or forgive you for kissing her
i think you should ask her what kind of relationship is this?
ask her to be yr girlfiend and then kiss her
2006-10-18 18:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by mishakatrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her you really want to and ask her her permission to do it. If she likes you as much as it seems, it'll be flattering that you have the manners to be treating her like the princess she is!
2006-10-18 18:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the moment is right for your first kiss.
you can take her by the hand or put your arm around her and go from there
2006-10-18 18:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you really like her, and you guys do all that stuff together....then i think you should go for it and kiss her! and just have like a normal conversation...and then once your like really close.....you can just say i love u....and kiss her!!! i mean if u love her...........
2006-10-18 18:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by malibumandie4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask her again if yall could be bf and gf
2006-10-18 18:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sapphire J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋