He and I were together for 1 1/2. I found out that he had been cheating on me the whole time ofcource I broke up with him....He wouldn't leave me alone talking about how it wasn't true...blah blah so any way I found that girls number caller her and she told me she was his girl friend for two years!!! So then he was saying that it wasn't like that that not untill six months into our relationship did he start to take me serious and that yes he had been with her durning that time (before he started to take me serious)why would he be with me if he wasn't serious knowing how I felt about him....does that make sence anyway I don't believe him but I still love him and want to know if I should give him another chance??
2006-10-18 10:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by MCB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get this...Now he tells me he loves me!!
2006-10-18 11:01:55 · update #1
A person who is basically insincere will turn out that way atleast once again in the long run. Then you are going to regret it. So control yourself and just dump him. After sometime you will get over this. Have the strength of character to forgive him and say bye bye to him forever. You will never regret this.
2006-10-18 11:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by prad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are lame enough to believe him & take him back, you get what you asked for when he does it again... And he will because he knows you'll just take him back. That is weak. Stand up for yourself, are you so despearte & think so little of yourself that you believe this guy???
If so, sure!!! Give him a second chance!!! Then you'll give him a third chance & a fourth, etc. etc. Get some self respect.....
2006-10-18 18:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! This dude didn't respect you enough to be truthful to you from the very beginning, and you want to give him a second chance? Don't do it. He just wants you to be around so that he can have his options open, don't you see, he was playing both you and his other girlfriend. Girl, you deserve so much better than this, you deserve to be with someone who will love you as much as you love them. Kick this dumba** to the curb. Don't listen to him, he's still trying to play you. Be strong and leave him, don't let him continue to hurt you. I wish you well...
2006-10-18 18:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by fabulous diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only two good reasons to even consider a second chance.
1) You believe it's okay for him to hurt you again, and
2) You want to waste some time before you finally move on.
2006-10-18 17:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is not a video game where you have second chances or a cheat code for unlimited lives, its not a baseball game where its 3 strikes and your out
2006-10-18 18:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we truely love someone that we really can't ever be with for one reason or another.
I personally wouldn't trust him ever again.
2006-10-18 18:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't give him a chance cause he'll cheat again
2006-10-18 18:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by df d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noi he's trying to play u
2006-10-18 18:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sapphire J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!
uve messed up once , move on!!
there are better non-cheater guys out there
2006-10-18 17:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋