I loved a girl so much that I made a tatto of her name exactly on my heart just to see her smile! Got her fav bike just to surprise her. I spent a lot just to get her lucky number "8" for my bike.. (bike number KA 53, N 8888) 5+3 = 8 again!!
Neva said no for anything!! She was everything for me!! my first priority!! I washed her clothes. she didnt force me for that, but voluntarily went ahead and washed them because there is nothing called ego, self esteem, dignity, insult or anything of that sort in true love. But she never understood my love!! I didnt like her wearing certain type of clothes but she hardly listened to me. didnt like she talking to her friends late nights. she used to think that iam trying to rule her! she neva saw the love behind it!! im really possessive about her coz i love her more than anything in my life!
she always compares me wit her ex bf tat he was more sweet etc! it kills me!! i cant take the pain anymore!! & its so difficult 4 me to 4get her. pls advice
2006-10-18 10:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude you need to RELAX! maybe it's this intensity that she isn't digging...people need space. they need to have their individuality. you have to remain your own person so you can share that with the one youlove and vise versa....try hanging out with her friends...don't give her a hard time about chatting with them...that's just silly and can push her away eventually. if you let her be she'll come to you and try to please you on her own. but don't demand it or give her a hard time over small things like talking on the phone late
2006-10-18 10:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her how much she means to you. TRy to express it as best you can. If it turns out that she does not appreciate you entirely or that she takes advantage of you, than find someone that can truly appreciate your loving spirit. But realize that if you are coming between her and her friends she will turn on you. Its the bros before hos thing, but with women. Try to be more sweet if she thinks you're not, or try to figure out what she thinks sweet is. That may be part of the problem. Tell her about how you do the things you do out of love for her. Just don't let her take you for granted.
Good luck, sweetheart.
2006-10-18 10:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like a sweetheart, i don't know if you tried talkn to her about this. She seems like she the important one and you should do the things for her. Stop. You know you love her, and you show that, but tell her how you feel, she shouldnt be comparing you to her ex. If he was so damn sweet than why isnt she with him. Try not to control her, let her have her room but she should still respect you. you seem like a really thoughtful person. She is blessed to have you, and obviosoluy she doesnt know that. Stay in there, and pray. otherwise leave. you deserve better than that. Follow your heart and instincts.
2006-10-18 10:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your a good man and if if i knew you i wouuld love 2 have you as a bf.She doesn't love you she love what you can give to her but she don't want you like a bf she's just a golddigger
I f you want to talk just email me
2006-10-18 10:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sapphire J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋