shes irrational to the point of screaming the house down been manipulative, subtle in her ways to make me react angrily, shes angry all the time, i can't seem to get close to her emotionally, she makes me feel stupid, she doesnt pull her weight in the household chores and when she does she makes a big deal about it and does it kinda right but not ok. she lives with clutter all over the house and she gets angry when i try to clean it all up saying that i dont want anything about her living in the house, shes bitter, resentful,not many friends,shes in constant conflict with her family each sister brother and father in turn. shes now started to drink more than is good for her. when my aunt died and i said something of triviality to her about something else she exploded ranting and raving and left the house and never came back sending abusive texts to me and dumped me by text ive lived with her 2 years and confused i think it may be borderline personality disorder or passive agressive diso
2006-10-18 10:23:40 · 6 answers · asked by ciaran 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sounds like borderline personality disorder. there will always be drama with her.
2006-10-19 18:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by nicole26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, be reflective for a minute. It's possible that she's trying to push you away, and you're probably being too in love and stupid to realize it. If this is the case, you are not meant to be together, and you'll be miserable for a long time, so break things off now!
And if that's not the case, and she's really just wacky, she's STILL making you miserable, and you should still break up with her, because YOU are better than that. You don't need some psycho screaming ***** to run your life or control you. Be strong and be your own person.
DO NOT stay with her because you pity her life situation. That's her problem, and only she can fix it. You can't fix her, you can only fi yourself. Start by reanalyzing your life, man. I think you can probably be happier elsewhere.
2006-10-18 10:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend first. Don't make any psychiatric assumptions. She could just be going through a rough time, or she could have things in her past that are making things difficult for her If you really want to circumvent her, talk to your family doctor, and see if you can get a referral to a Psychiatrist.
2006-10-18 10:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is bipolar, manic depressive, she needs meds, and counseling. Passive aggressive is not this behavior, it is the opposite. This is more like some other behavior, but if you are not married to this lady, I would run.
2006-10-18 10:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Clearly you don't want to be with her, since you have only mentioned her negative traits, but none of the positive things that make you want to stay with her.
2006-10-18 10:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by el nombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY!!!! stop worring about her and start worring about you!! This kind of relationship is obviosly not helathy for you, you deserve someone better, so if she is mentally ill or asomething it´s her problem and she should take care of it. You should take care of you!!!
2006-10-18 15:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋