Does it lead to anything?
2006-10-18 10:16:00 · 27 answers · asked by Babs B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Nah, it's harmless fun.
Then again we're swingers, so u probably don't want my opinion on flirting LOL.
2006-10-18 12:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you are married then you don't need to flirt with anyone except the person you married. You've made a commitment to that person that you've married and you shouldn't break it. It is considered cheating when you flirt with someone other than your spouse and most of the time it does lead to something other than just flirting. My advice to you is to stop the flirting if it's already started or don't consider it if you've been thinking about it. It will save your marriage and it will keep the trust your spouse has for you.
2006-10-18 17:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's probably not the best thing to do. But, I think saying that something will definitely come from it is jumping the gun a bit (notice my use of the word "definitely"). It would increase the chances that something could come of it, and the other person might take it seriously, thinking that you are really interested. If that's the case, then you're just playing with someone elses feelings, which isn't cool (I know, because that has happened to me many times, see one of my previous questions http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuF_UPQ112vtY26bTzUpdBnsy6IX?qid=20061006182254AA3ocw4 ).
Also, I think the person that suggested asking yourself if you would want your spouse flirting with people aside from you. If the answer is no, then it would be best to withhold your flirting temptations and use them only on your spouse.
2006-10-18 19:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really, but the problem comes along if you are caught flirting when your married. Can it lead to anything you ask - come on what do you think ?
2006-10-18 17:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong to flirt with someone other than your spouse. It can lead to certain things, such as the person you're flirting with thinking you want more than just flirting. It can increase your chances of entertaining the idea of cheating. Flirting is just one step away from cheating and is like a form of cheating. Look at it this way, with holding the truth from someone is a form of lying, no, it isn't exactly lying but it's one step closer to lying. I also like the way one of the other people put it, would you like it if your spouse was flirting with some woman? Would it make you jealous? Be honest with yourself and treat your spouse with the respect he deserves.
2006-10-18 17:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody flirts married men and women its part and parcel of the human psyche.So I guess its not wrong but only and only if you keep it at flirting and nothing more.Also making sure the person or people you are flirting with know that nothing is going to come of it.It only leads to something if you want it to.
2006-10-18 17:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a good wife when I was married and ended up divorced because I was never satisfied with my relationship or myself. I think you have to ask yourself what makes you want to be the center of attention? I think marriage is about the family and doing what's best for your husband and your kid's? Don't throw that away if your happy with your husban and love your kids, because your "EGO" is so large that you need other guys to look at you to make you feel some type of worth? Your worth is judged by being a good wife and mother.you can throw that away to be just some bit*ch that did'ent care! Which one are you?
2006-10-18 17:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by CROC DADDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a cheeky, harmless flirt which is fun and there's a proper flirt with sexual connotations. The latter can lead to trouble, I would be careful
2006-10-18 17:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Thou Shalt Not Think 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not always lead to anything, but it might.
You shouldn't take that chance.
Some men might want to pursue it even more and that can be dangerous. Especially if you have a jealous husband.
2006-10-18 17:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes just being nice to someone is taken in a wrong way...it depends on the person or receiver of the compliment. some people are shallow and narrow minded, some are open and game and they don't think anything by it except they think of it as a regular compliment or just shooting breeze...
2006-10-18 17:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you don't do anything more than flirt, you are a-okay! I mean you are married, not dead or blind. It is human nature to flirt, and anyone who says otherwise has no pulse.
2006-10-18 17:24:42 · answer #11 · answered by m b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋