how do you attract the right sort of man not just the ones who want a bit of casualsex or a fling are there any left and how does a 29 yr old blonde size 12 -14 who (according to my mates is fairly good looking) meet one !
2006-10-18 10:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its always good for a relationship if you have things in common. So you need to meet like minded men. You can do this by actively getting involved with hobbies, learning, clubs, dating agency etc.
Decide what you would like your man to be like. And aim for this in the men that come into your life.
When you meet a man take your time getting to know him. If he cares for you he will wait, don't rush into a physical relationship. Start out as friends. Go on 'dates' where its easy to talk. Find out about his life, his likes dislikes,about his family, previous relationships etc. This should come natural so don't force it. You will soon find out about him. If there are things he says, or does that ring warning bells, don't continue seeing him. An example would be if he finds it difficult or wont talk, in time this could be a problem. They wont go away because its how he is !!!!
If you show you have respect for yourself, you will get it in return.
Happy dating and GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
Failing all that stay single! lol
2006-10-18 10:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become a brunette! Seriously, are you putting out vibes that you just want a bit of casual sex or a fling? You could try places where scoring with the opposite sex is not the main focus - maybe dance classes instead of clubs. If you've got nice brothers / boy cousins / other male relatives check out their mates - they could be nice too. Or your girlfriends' brothers and cousins. If you often see the same nice guy on the way to work or wherever, try a hi and a nice smile. You never know ...
2006-10-18 10:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Linz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can start by not going around saying you're a 29 year old blonde, size 12-14 and calling yourself Bustyblonde.
As soon as I read that, I was thinking about casual sex with you.
2006-10-18 10:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Focus on trying to get to know every person you meet and don't give them an interview. Don't try and fit someone to your requirements because you might be subconsiously weeding out the good ones.
Also try dating several guys at once, w/o the sex. That is how dating is supposed to be anyway. Just try and get to know them without comparing them to your ideal boyfriend.
If you are that busty, try hiding your girls if you can. A large chest is like a switch for guys to turn back into cave men.
2006-10-18 10:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen American Psycho? Christian Bale was the most decent n respectable by day,and by night,,,ha ha :P
You can't really judge people by looks.Sometimes they just are projecting an image and that's all.
If you wanna meet someone decent that should be a priest or monk.
If you wanna meet someone interesting...that's a different issue.
...for that you should be interesting yourself...
if you wanna know how a girl can be interesting enough to become more 'gf' material than **** buddy or one night stand material, then you have to ask that question in yahoo answers. :)
2006-10-18 10:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out, tell me. :) In the meantime, just put all your efforts into enjoying your life and doing your best to be happy... but I have had zero luck with men all my life and am in no position to be offering advice! Honestly if all the dumbass men out there would realise how many great women sit around discussing the best way to get them to fall in love with them, and would just GET WITH THE PROGRAM, the world would be a better place.
Rant over!
2006-10-18 10:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sinead C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in a bar or a night club.
Do a part time night course in something that you are interested in. Pick up a hobby or ineterst and join a club or society. Ask your mates to set you up with a "nice" compatable guy.
Email me your pic and if I like you you never know!!
2006-10-18 10:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the bloke asks you back to his place that should be a good sign that he is after one thing. if he is truly decent he wont try and pressure you into something you don't want to do. and another thing don't get drunk so that you might do something you may later regret.
2006-10-18 11:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by horrorfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard through friends i guess is the best or at work. i think that guys who come up to girls that they see out on the street or in bars probably do it all the time to alot of girls and they arent the serious type.
2006-10-18 10:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by grace07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become more active in the things that interest you. Place LESS importance on "attracting" guys and MORE importance on getting to know guys as individuals.
2006-10-18 10:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋