2006-10-18 09:45:51 · 38 answers · asked by lilmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's wrong to date older guys.
2006-10-18 09:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends how old you are, and how old they are. If you are under 18, you should deffinatly not date anyone more than a couple years older than you are. If you are over 18, there is really no limit, except the mental and emotional maturity of both people involved. Mental and emotional age is FAR more important at that point. But if the age difference is too great, you also have to be aware that you may both want different things out of life, and consider how that may affect your relationship. But this doesn't always have to be a problem.
2006-10-18 10:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends upon your age and how much older they are than you. The younger you are the less of an age difference there should be. As you get older the age difference is less and less of an issue. So in general, no it isn't wrong...however if your 13 and wanting to date an 18 year old then yes it is wrong.
2006-10-18 09:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with dating an older guy as long as you are of consenting age. He has experience under his belt and may be able to show you a few tricks, then again, you may be able to do the same. Enjoy, have fun and be safe.
2006-10-18 09:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by ivy190878 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how older. In my view, if they're over 5 years older, it's too old. But 1 or 2 years isn't wrong/bad.
2006-10-18 09:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by DestinationUNKNOWN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!! you date who you want it's your life ,and don't let no one tell you different. now if you are 12 or 15 you don't need to date on 21 or older take it from someone who have a 13 year old daughter your parents always love you (now if you are 18 and older you can date who you ever want to thank you
2006-10-18 10:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by alabama12108 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How much older? My girlfriend is a little more than two years younger than me. For high school students, three or four years difference isn't a huge deal. A little more than that isn't too crazy. For adults... well, my dad is nineteen years older than my mom. I think that's a little much. I'd say eight to ten years is about what I would feel comfortable with.
2006-10-18 09:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by feral_black_gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but give some of the guys closer to your age a chance too. Some of them will be mature.
I'm older now, but when I was young I hated it when the older guys tried to swoop in on someone I was seeing!
2006-10-18 09:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLY NOT! I have had my run with guys and every time i dated a younger guy they only skirted around behind my back. I am with an older man now and wouldn't trade him for the world... I think older guys are more mature and most of the time have most of their priorities straightened out..
2006-10-18 09:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by NikkiN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not 13 and he is 30
2006-10-18 09:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by coloklute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋