Now that I've got your attention, here's the problem:
I feel as if I have no hope left.......Please Help!?
I used to like a guy named Shabaz. I stopped liking him a few weeks ago. I like his friend John and I'm getting hints that he likes me to, but today when I saw both of them and two ofther friends, Shabaz said that I was mad ugly and John was just looking at me. The look that he gave me was like he was laughing at me or happy. After that, I just feel pissed and surprised and I feel like crying. I don't know what to do....I feel like cursing Shabaz out 2morrow. It's hard for me to give up John. I can't forget about him. Please help. Thanks
2006-10-18 09:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, be the stronger person here. Clearly neither one of them are good enough for you. You need to just forget about them (at least stop crushing on that one guy) and find a guy that will treat you like you should be treated. They are getting under your skin to piss you off and that is exactly what they are trying to do. They want to hurt you...so you should try and shrug it off and meet better people! Good luck
2006-10-18 09:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear young miss, it is no joke TO state you are thinking of SUICIDE !!!!! Do you know that attempting SUICIDE is a Crime ! Yes, a Real CRIME ! You can also be picked up & put in a hospital, under guard until doctors figure out what's going on with you -- it could take MONTHS !!!!!!
I understand your emotions and your feelinga are all mixed up and that you are in pain -- I've been there too !!!
1st -- You need to forget these kinds of boys, they are no good (generally) & don't amount to much in life !!! What do you want for your future? A loving husband who can take good care of you & your children??? A Lovely home where you'll have the time and freedom to stay home and love and raise your children??? Enough money for nice vacations to Hawaii and Europe or Ski Trips ???? A nice car, a safe car in which to do your shopping and protect your children in??? If so, THESE ARE NOT THE TYPE of BOYS you should be with !!!!!!
Start studying so you can get into a good University (see your guidence councilor so you can get on track !!!). Find a subject that makes you happy and put all the energy you are wasting on these boys into your studies, so that in College you will learn a career and more than likely find a FINE YOUNG MAN who will LOVE YOU and YOU will all have a GOOD LIFE !!!! And your CHILDREN will have a GOOD LIFE and you WILL BE HAPPY !!!
Stay away from these types, make nice friends and study hard -- IT REALLY PAYS OFF !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Barbie
2006-10-18 17:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of boys call girls names after things did not work out between them, and as for john, you said he gave you a look that he was laughing, but you did not say that he was laughing. now remember these other boys are his buddies, he wants to please them as well as not hurt you. so, he did not know what to do. i think that if you like john tell him that you do.. as for this other kid, just tell him that he is just pissed that you don't want him any more and he needs to grow up.
2006-10-18 16:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a jerk for calling you "mad ugly" and he should be doing it, for your crush you should tell him that you like him and forget about his friend if he really likes you then he wouldnt care about what his friends think
2006-10-18 16:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by RaGy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you shouldn't let your old crush get to you like that and then you should tell john how you feel
2006-10-18 16:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if their friends then i think they jus' caught you in a trap all boys like to play....if your going out with a boy and then u like his friend they might play thier little mind games and ask thier friend to flirt with you to see if you'll flirt back....to see if your loyal or not..
2006-10-18 16:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Nissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both alone, i dont see why u even liked this shabazz guy he's not even a nice friend it sounds like he needs to grow up,and another he probaly notice how your treat the new friend and got jealous and tried to diss you, be strong and dont seem deperate and dont let him beloeve what he says about you is true, be strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 16:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stop reading after the name shabaz seeee yaaa !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-18 16:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only no hope if you think and act as if there is no hope.
2006-10-18 16:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋