Does that mean something is wrong with him? He seems to be really nice, but I am afraid if he couldn't stay married three times maybe he is hiding something.
2006-10-18 09:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by bitloml98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i personally wont jump into something like that. Find out why the marriages didnt work out
2006-10-18 09:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by sashaNY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not hiding anything. He's very obviously unable to resolve problems. He has little regard for marriage vows. His word means nothing. He doesn't place much value on relationships. When things get tough, he leaves. He's immature.
What's to hide? It's pretty clear to me.
And if he has kids with any or all of these women, he has zero concern for family values and is exceptionally self-sentered.
Run away. Run fast. Don't recycle used men!
2006-10-18 16:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those things that in the beginning you say to yourself, "It doesn't hurt to go out on a few dates and get to know him" then you wind up in a relationship, it doesn't work and you look back and say to yourself "what was I thinking dating a man that has been married 3 times". Its a huge flashing sign in my opinion.
2006-10-18 16:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are your instincts talking to you. Chances are this guy does have some issues. The biggest thing is how forthcoming he is with you about what happened. If he starts bashing his ex-spouse or tries to make it all her fault, beware and then run away fast. Just be really careful.
2006-10-18 16:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever hear the term 3 time loser, or three strikes your out? You ought to think not twice, but three times.
2006-10-18 16:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him why his other marriages ended. Even though my ex cheated I can see where I was partly to blame for our marriage ending. If all 3 divorces were 100% their fault in his eyes - thats trouble.
2006-10-18 16:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him more first to know what sort of person is he. If he is good then go ahead, but normally if i'm u, i wouldn't because 3 times divorce quite rare, he must have problems.
2006-10-18 16:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be someone's #4? If he can't get it right 3 times, I think you need to stand clear.
2006-10-18 16:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by dunleavyblows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times, it wasnt really love probalyl mairred over looks
2006-10-18 16:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . You shouldn t . He is probbly trying to get world record in divoring women .
2006-10-18 16:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋