I have been reading some things here on yahoo and things that are going on in this world. Can we help if we can have kids and others can't? Shouls they be takingit out on us? And kidnapping our kids? (Like that crazy woman that kidnapped lil abby when seeing that sign in the front yard saying "it's a girl"?
What do you all think?
2006-10-18 09:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I am referring to people tthat put others down not just teenagers saying all we girls/women do is breed...Wasn't asking a rude question to the one person that answered my question talking about reporting me. I am not insulting anyone. The question i asked was plain as day:If some people cannot have kids should they take it out on the ones that can?
2006-10-18 15:07:29 · update #1
I think it is horrible. Especially when these women critisize girls who either give their child up for adoption or abortion.
I don't think I can have children(i have been trying for over a year) and I am distraught over it, but I would gladly support any girl asking for advice or to listen to why she doesn't want her child/can't take care of it.
I think these woman need to stop harrassing the teenage girls who get pregnant by mistake. If they wanted to listen to some rude person be a c*nt towards them they would ask.
2006-10-18 09:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should they no but do they yes. It is a sad thing for people to want a child and never be able to have one while others that don't really want them except for a bigger wel-fare check or to gain a husband have them all the time. As a mother I can not imagine what it would be like to never be able to have a child in my life and adoption in this country is long and hard and for your average income people almost impossible. I feel for any parent that has a child kidnapped just as with Baby Abby, but at the same time I feel for the woman that took her and if you saw the interview with the babies parent on tv her mother said she just wanted to see her get the help she needed. Society puts a lot of pressure on people to have kids, our families put pressure on us to have them and some just can't cope with it. Either way you look at the picture it really isn't fair.
2006-10-18 17:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Right ! I don't think they should take it out on others . But they do . I think once their biological clock gets going and they want a baby so bad and can not conceive that it drives them insane . I have seen the insanity first hand . I have four sisters two older and two younger . Just last year one of my older sisters was pregnant ( who has been trying four 13 yrs. ) . So my younger sister ( who had had a horrible miscarriage and it almost killed her so now she can not have kids ) slipped cocaine in her drink days later my older sister had a miscarriage . My older sister does not do any drugs so when the Dr. did test and found the cocaine in her system she was shocked not to mention pissed because the nurse and Dr. made her feel horrible ( they thought she was using ) . Later on my younger sister had confessed to putting cocaine in her drink .And laughed about it . Need less to say they don't talk anymore . This world is crazy and we may never understand the crazy things people do . So we just have to go on and deal with the crazy people .
2006-10-18 16:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you just asked is really insulting and bordering on what I would report for.
Sure, there are some who are angry about not being able to have kids, but characterizing the whole of those who cannot by one kidnapping is uncalled for. Your attitude is sick and you really need to think about what you're saying before you post hateful stuff like this.
With the sort of judgemental crap posted here, I'm not really sure you can raise intelligent, accepting, compassionate children. Maybe you should consider adoption and have compassionate people who can't have children of their own raise yours.
2006-10-18 16:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, didnt hear about the kidnapping case... I havent seen anything about people unable to have kids taking it out on ones who can either. Of course that wouldnt be fair if it was the case though.
2006-10-18 16:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by MaPetiteHippopotame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know! It's crazy! They say not to announce the birth of your baby in the paper anymore either. People are nuts but I get they are really sad because they can't have kids of their own but stealing one is not the answer.
2006-10-18 16:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the answer to this is no, why would it ever be right for someone to kidnap or harm kids????
2006-10-18 16:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats just stupid! if they want a child, i mean REALLY wanted a child, they could adopt...?
2006-10-18 16:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by sonder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"thou shall not covet"
2006-10-18 17:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by Emily O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋