My ex just broke up with me because he said I was to sexually appealing to other men. His last couple of gals were a bit on the plain yawn boring side in my opinion. Still he still got with me and we were happy for six months! I admit I like to dress sexy, but that is for two reasons. One I just lost over 50 pounds and just started modeling. I'm very excited to show off my accomplishments and I like to look hot for him. I have a naturally curvy figure and losing the weight only made those accents more obvious. I don't dress trashy or anything mostly clothes that accentuate my body. I do not flirt with other men, I only had eyes for him and he knew that. I've been faithful this entire time did not do anything to give him a reason to doubt my love for him, but in the end he made a huge issue out of it!. Why was he trying to change me to be with me? He's a good looking guy and I never told him to change for me. What can I do to keep myself and get him back?
2006-10-18 09:00:45 · 3 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel great about myself. I don't have to dress in a sheet to prove a point to someone. I wear what I wear cause I happen to like my wardrobe. As I stated what I WEAR should not be the deciding factor on my character. I don't like the fact that he has lots of girls that are his friends. I never told him he couldn't be friends with them. Why can't he just be happy I'm on his arm? and except me for the person who cares for him deeply. I'm proud of him, always. I could have on jeans and a t-shirt and it would still be some type of problem. Either the t-shirt clinged to tight or neck line was low. I mean it was always something! I couldn't win!
2006-10-18 09:22:29 · update #1
He is insecure. Most guys are, but if you are as hot as you say, he probably can only thing about how all these other guys want you. And he probably doesn't think that highly of himself, so he expects you to leave him for a better offer.
That is a tough lock to pick. All you can do is tell him and show him how much you want him, or get him to think higher of himself. If you have the resources, like your model friends, see if you can arrange for them to hit on him once or twice. If he thinks other hotties dig him he probably will realize he is good enough for you and won't be as insecure about your good looks.
You are an impressive girlfriend.
2006-10-18 09:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't like the fact that your trying to show off your accomplishments...this = attention junkie...bye the bye when people dress up all the time (not just occasionally) it's usually because they need to dress like that in order to feel good about themselves...try to obtain some culture and substance..I'm not trying to be mean about this...
2006-10-18 16:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change for no one what man wouldnt want a sexually appealling woman... im me at lookie_here692000
2006-10-18 16:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋