For Instants when we go out. He tells me to go find me a friend and talk to them, And then wen we get home he gets mad at me for talking to other males so he gets over it by callin me fat BYTCHS and all kind of sluts and hoes. And then he'll sit there again and still say He loves me cause I will threaten to l eave him. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHA 3 YEARS AND ALL THIS BULL JUST STARTED IS IT TIME FOR SOMETHIN NEW OR WHAT????????????
2006-10-18 08:56:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WE ALSO LIVE TOGETHER BUT MY NAME IS ON THE LEASE....
2006-10-18 09:07:14 · update #1
SHOULD I PUT HIM OUT ????
2006-10-18 09:07:55 · update #2
Its time to leave him.
2006-10-18 08:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 years and he is just showing this side? is there some major stresser that just appeared in his life? not that it is any reason to take it out on you, but at least then you would have something to talk about (don't take your stress out on me...). otherwise, look closely at what has been going on the past 3 years... has he been isolating you (it doesn't really sound like it)? did you move away from family and friends? i ask because these are the first signs of an abuser... look at the situation, the whole situation. if this is a passing thing that is brought on by a major stresser, he may just need time to learn to deal with the stress - offer to help. if it follows an abuser pattern get out now.
2006-10-18 09:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, he is a cheater and he thinks that since he is doing it, that you are too. What does he do when he tells you to go find you a friend? Does he go off somewhere and with a woman? Do you really want to live your life this way? Try to have a deep conversation about this. Tell him how you feel and see where he is coming from. Ask him why he does this. If he continues to do this and your getting nothing from the relationship, but pain and hurt, it's time to leave.
2006-10-18 09:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one. What I would suggest, even though it might be difficult, is give him his space. If he told you nothing would bring you guys apart, then you just have to believe him. Most of the time when guys recieve tangible things such as an animal, it makes them feel connected to you with something that is hard to be broken, thus it freaks them out. Give it a little time and see where it goes from there. If you need someone to talk to more, im always on yahoomessenger: courtneyburgin12 and I'll be happy to talk more. Good luck.
2016-03-28 00:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people on here could give you all the advice in the world , honey, but the only one you can truly rely on is in your heart. Do you feel like your relationship is going no where? If so it probably is time for something new. Take some time off for yourself...granted that doesn't always solve the problem, but it could help!!
2006-10-18 09:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not treating you right! What REAL man would want their lady talking to another man?!? My husband gets mad when the pizza man flirts with me! Girl, find you a man that is all about you! I'm sure you are cute and can get a man when you want one....get rid of him.
2006-10-18 09:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for him verbally abusing you. I suggest you get out of this relationship now before you get too much more involved, i.e. marriage, children, etc. His possessiveness can lead to much more than emotional abuse, like the names that he calls you. It can get dangerous.
Don't give him any chances either. He will always say, "baby, I love you, please give me a chance, I'm sorry," but it sounds like the behavior doesn't change.
Don't wait around for him to change. Leave now.
2006-10-18 08:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Heck if I know! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a man you see yourself marrying? Do you really want to raise children around that environment? It sounds like he has some personal issues he needs to resolve alone. Yep, dump him. There is something better out there.
2006-10-18 08:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by girlajeepin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do, but your looking others opinions to give you strength, well you know you should leave him, what are you waiting for God to rip open the sky, and tell you to leave him?
2006-10-18 09:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea gurl thats sumthing that they do...cause men r jealous immature babies..they can dish it but they cant take it...leave him alone for awhile...im not telling u to break up with him cause im in no position to suggest that..i myself have put up with sum nonsense from my boyfriend...but back up off him till he learns sum respect...would he cALL HIS MOTHER THAT?? give him sum x without u...not seeing u...hearing from u...he will get it 2gether
2006-10-18 09:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's on drugs or something to me. It's strange! I'd move on.
2006-10-18 08:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋