hey i met this guy about 3 weeks ago we been talking and going out to dinner, concerts. and his house! i really like him alot but i dont think that he is interested in me as much as im in him. the problem is that the first time i went to his house we ended up doing it he still calls me but not as much as before we did it you guys think that he lost interest in me because we did it?
2006-10-18 08:55:59 · 17 answers · asked by issa r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got ran some game honey, and he's got you on booty call! You never know, he MIGHT be different, but you got a 30% chance of that. You were the prey and he wanted to NAB it...and normally once the deed is done, well, it's either he keeps ya around a bit as back up unti he finds someone else. That's normally a typical playa's game, it's more intricate with some, but that's the basics. See what's it's about, if his normal behavior from 3 weeks changes into a non-interest, or avoidance, then yea you gotta go find someone else to date....but if he's still showing interests aside from sex...then he may be that rare few.
2006-10-18 09:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is not very interesting he will not stay arround. Many men or younger guys have problems with not wanting to hurt girls feelings so in their way it becomes easier to treat them badly secretly wishing for the girls to walk away and drop them. Men most men do not want all the drama of telling a female hey it was fun but now it is over. Which in a way is far kinder than saying it was too easy and it wasn't too good.
2006-10-18 09:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it was a mistake for you to do it with him right away. From a guy's point of view. I would think that's all you wanted was a one nighter if you gave it up right away and I would just leave it at that. If you want to know if a guy is really into you for more than just sex, you have to hold out for at least a month and find other stuff to do. If he still acts like he's interested in you after a month or so, then most likely he's gonna stay around.
2006-10-18 09:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very Unlikely that he lost interest in you because you Did It.
Most men don't lose interest in a woman because they did it early in a relationship.
He may have lost interest because as he gradually gets to know your personality, lifestyle, and "the real you", that he is becoming less intereseted in a romantic relationship with you.
2006-10-18 09:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by JustPeachy !!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he lost interesrt cuz all his intentions were is to tag you and now that he did he is loosing interest.
Don't blame yourself, blame him for being a pig.
Next time don't give it up so easily. eventually a guys true colors will come out if you hold out.
2006-10-18 08:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jim e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah part of the fun is the chase he caught u now why does he need to chase .
2006-10-18 08:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Vinny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course he did; sorry to break the news to you. u already gave it up to him, so what else is he looking forward to? marriage? not trying to be harsh, but thats what i assume. hopefully, he is still feeling you though. give him other reasons to pursue the chase. there is still time left!! lol.
2006-10-18 09:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is very common with men of a certain type. They want sex, not roamnce.
2006-10-18 08:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would venture to say he had his way with you and now he's on his way to another...not knowing either of you it's hard to say, but that is my guess
2006-10-18 09:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When will girls ever learn ????????????????????????? You DO NOT GIVE AWAY YOUR PRECIOUS GIFT, YOUR BODY, to just anyone !!!!!!! WAIT until you are truly in love and engaged !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My mother used to say, "Why buy the COW, when YOU can GET the MILK for FREE ?" Very good advise for girls to remember !!!!
2006-10-18 09:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋