Okey here is the story..i think it was wierd.There is this guy...he is just in one of my classes...we are from different races but we interact quite well...i haven't seen him for like ages ...so i bump into him today and he is all over me...says we should have lunch -i was too busy and planning to skip but i said what the hell-ok.So we were to meet up and i go and he does't show up..(mind you there is nothing between us)..so i just think okey maybe i didnt get the right place ..so i send him and message and he tells me someone was waiting for him and he had gone up..so i said well okey..and when i went to join them they were leaving...with this girl(from his race).She was not happy to see me-it was very akward.He tried to introduce us but she as too MAD.So i said okey C YA.Then later we bump into each other and he offers me ice cream says he feels bad..and guess what i felt VERY STUPID. .what do u makeof it
2006-10-18 08:53:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he had two dates at once and chose the other girl.
I'd probably drop him.
2006-10-18 08:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone would really have to know your classmate to know how to interpret this. I'm the kind of guy who might do something just like you described because I like to make friends and I treat all female friends much nicer than I would ever treat a male friend. From this point of view, he may have just been being friendly.
On the other hand, he may be seeing if there's any mutual interest on your part because he's thinking about ending his current relationship. That would make sense if his girlfriend is going to be upset just because another girl approaches. I don't think friends have to be the same gender unless it's romantic. In fact, my absolute best friend is a female that is not my girlfriend. Like I said, we'd really have to know him to know how he thinks.
2006-10-18 15:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you. It sounds like his friends may be the ones that have a problem with it. I think thats nice that he said sorry and offered you ice cream. I wouldnt fell stupid if your not offended by his race than I see no reason to feel stupid!
2006-10-18 15:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend:
He is not into you! He is just being nice after his galfriend was rude and felt bad bailing out of a date with a classmate! Get over your wishful thinking he is not interested in you! Good luck
Sanam
2006-10-18 15:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing.
follow my lead.
He should feel stupid.
Also, why the emphasis on race, the gender is enough. Do you think a jealous white/asian/latino girl would have acted any different?
2006-10-18 15:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they used to go out and now he just hangs out with her because she sleeps with him still, but he dosent really like her. Or maybe he is trying to be a player but hes really bad at it
2006-10-18 15:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by grace07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a PLAYER and he "wants to have his cake and eat it too". I would stay as far away from him as I could if I were you, its trouble waiting to happen.
2006-10-18 15:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's retarded. he probally wanted to make her jelous, next time you see him tell him your too busy for games and walk away. Don't allow yourself to be put in that posistion ever ever again
2006-10-18 15:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a game player. NEXT!
2006-10-18 15:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. And a jerk!
You know you deserve better.
2006-10-18 15:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋