Please don't be too harsh.
2006-10-18 08:49:19 · 26 answers · asked by shelbykittygirlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to be harsh with you, but I will be honest. I guess it's kind of hard for you right now to take your attention away from a guy you obviously have a crush on even though you know he sleeps with another man. If I were you I would leave this situation alone and move on because I think you could really get hurt down the road. If he's bisexual he's still gay no matter what. Do you really want to try and get yourself involved with a man that has sex with other guys??? I mean if you don't care about the sex part then more power to you, but what about the emotional part??? His eyes will always be where the men are no matter what. If he has a boyfriend then he will always prefer men in the end. There are some fine a** men out there. There are so many more guys you can choose from that would be great for you. By the way this guy could be very happy with this boyfriend of his so you might want to leave the situation alone for that reason also. I know this isn't probably what you wanted to hear, but it's just my opinion.
2006-10-18 09:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't be harsh, but honest and frank.
It would not only be very immoral to break someone's relationship just because he attracks you, it's also extremely rare that an immoral relation lasts long.
Try to look for single guys, bisexual if you wish, it should be much simpler.
2006-10-18 15:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by juliepelletier 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, when a guy says he's bisexual, it really means he's gay. There's still lot of prejudice against being gay, so saying you're bisexual is a little safer. There are lots of straight guys who'll love you. Find a straight guy, this gay guy is going to break your heart.
2006-10-18 16:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by preciselyright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him, there are plenty of other (regular guys out there). this guy is messed up in the head (gender identity problems?). you wouldn't ever want to get involved in that mess. plus think of the diseases he may already have or will have. or how about worrying about him cheating on you with a guy or a girl?, you need a MAN man not a girly man, it will never work. you cant change him only he can change himself. don't waste your time.
2006-10-18 15:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by jet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. There are too many diseases out there to just throw yourself in front of as it is. Find you a straight man, because gay men (not that I have anything against them, some of my best guy friends are gay) are gross! How could you even bring yourself up to kiss him, sleep with him- knowing he does the same with other dudes? Hell to tha naw, Girl!
2006-10-18 15:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Problem is, guys are much more ok with casual sex than girls. So unless you're willing to sleep with him right away, you'll have to settle for friendship. Sometimes friendship can lead to love, and then you win out. Good luck.
2006-10-18 15:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for a load of trouble sweety. Skip the dramatics and get a guy who is straight, employed and available.
2006-10-18 15:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Dovie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl - Walk away!!!!! It's hard enough being dumped for some other woman, could you imagine being dumped for another man? I mean really - what would you tell people? Wise up and don't go down that road.
2006-10-18 15:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LA LA , if you are staright up, you are on the road to a whole lot of heartache sharing. Does Manogamy exist anymore?
2006-10-18 15:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by marie1257 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awkward.
2006-10-18 15:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋