The wife has no desire so I'm obviously thinking to go elsewhere for it. I love her but I need something purely sexual. Ladies what do you think? Would anyone ever get with a married guy for a night?
2006-10-18 08:44:48 · 36 answers · asked by crustedfilth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope that the girl you find gives you an STD and your wife finds out and leaves you!!
2006-10-18 08:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are willing to break your marriage vows because you wife wont take care of you sexually right now. You really need to talk to her and explain to her what you are thinking. If you go through with this you a walking right into divorce problems, tons of money being paid out and other situations. Don't be stupid. So what she doesn't want to have intercourse with you. Ask her to do intimate things with you that doesn't involve penetration.
If you go out and have sex with some woman you don't know you are seriously asking for more trouble, lawsuits, sexually transmitted diseases and even death from a jealous lover. C'mon.
Ask your wife what is going on and why she feels the way she does. Is she depressed? Overwhelmed? Pregnant? There can be many factors but if you haven't tried to help her get to the root of the situation then you have already destroyed your marriage because of your lust for other women and insensitivity to ordeals your wife may be going through.
You are a man. Think first. Don't destroy your family.
2006-10-18 08:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by dahnnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are married and the only person you should be "purely sexual" with is your wife. That answers the first question. Second question...there is always some chic out there with no moral values at all that would probably be willing. Maybe if you would find out why your wife isn't interested in sex than you two could work on the problem and rekindle that part of the marriage. After awhile sex isn't all that anymore and you need to reinvent it.
2006-10-18 08:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by cherteddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of females would, but i don't know if for a night. I think you should get help as see a therapist or a marrige counseler to help out you realationship. If you love you wife, try to work it out for you, you might just end up gething a misstress that will one day try to cutt up your wife's face. There some crazy females out there, and the ones that are willing to sleep with a married man are obiosly not right in the head. Also, you might scar your family for life. I don't think you should sleep around if your married, is just not right.
2006-10-18 08:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should never ever!!!!
You need to find out what is causing your wife to have no desire. She just doesn't have no desire for no reason. Talk with her and tell her your needs and find out what hers are as well.
It could be something as simple as she doesn't feel very sexy and you could up the romance to get her in the mood.
It will ruin your marriage forever if you go out and cheat! There is no taking it back after its done...
Take home some flowers tonight and sit and have a long, serious talk with YOUR WIFE...help her and it will help you!
Good Luck!
2006-10-18 08:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Older Sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER EVER mess with a married man. You should talk to your wife about it. You are risking screwing up your whole life for sex. Jerk off...it'll be much easier in the long run. Maybe if you treated your wife the way she should be treated she would show more interest in you. Take her for a nice romantic dinner or go out of your way to do nice things.
2006-10-18 08:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she is not sexually interest right now with you she proprably has someone else but if i was you i would talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you came to the point were you are planning to look for those pleasures in other women just speak with the Truth everything will be much easier.
2006-10-18 08:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by issa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife isn't interested because your demeanor or actions are a turn off. I am sure she loves you and is attracted to you otherwise she wouldn't have married you but you need to analyze your actions and figure out why she isn't interested. Bring the hot, steamy romance back to the relationship.
2006-10-18 08:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Gremy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not. Have you asked your wife about this? Is she letting you have some "on the side"? How would you feel if she did that to you because you're not enough for her? Why don't you try fixing her problems instead of your own? That is very selfish.
2006-10-18 08:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by These Fights 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
married men absolutely do not get any 'action on the side.' have a long deep discussion with your wife, then think of possibly seeing a therapist. cheating on her will only make things worse for the both of you. if you love her, you'll work with her.
2006-10-18 08:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try role playing with your wife. take sepaerate cars and agree on lets say a bar, now remember the idea is that you dont know her and your trying to use your best line to pick her up. try that before you step out on your wife even though you say its just for something sexual.
2006-10-18 08:48:46 · answer #11 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋