i dont like the one as much as i like the other one and I am afraid to say yes to him if he asks me out because what would i do if the other one likes me
2006-10-18 08:37:47 · 15 answers · asked by squeakers579 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grin and bear it. That's life, kiddo!
Just remember: a sure things beats a maybe every time!
2006-10-18 08:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy perspective, if I am the one you don't like that much.. I think it would be unfair to shut me down that early just because you feel more for the other one since you really am not sure yet if the other guy could reciprocate that. I would recommend group dates.. like if he ask, you can always give a smile and say if it's ok to be a group one, at least it look more friendly and emotionally safer. Then you should continue to make friends with the other one that you like, talk to him, so if the other one notices, he would know that you are still looking for the right one.
2006-10-18 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gable 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are, pick the guy that you know in the long run you wont have any problems with. The guy that you know will take care of you and is more dependable, if your ready to settle down. Cause truthfully there arent alot of good ones left so you got to do what you gotta do. Youll grow to like him more. On the other had if your not ready to settle down, pick them both, dont make any commitments.
2006-10-18 08:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by cbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't guarantee this, but accept the invitation fromt he one who likes you more. Then to the other guy, the one you like more, you may seem more attractive, being less available, being more experienced socially, and appearing to care more for a person for who he is. At the same time, keep in mind that this boy has feelings, and you should respect that as a person. Who knows, you may get to know him and like him more.
2006-10-18 10:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try out the guy who likes you first. That's what I'd do.
Or ask the other guy out to see if he likes you, see what his reaction is. You could pose it in a very light hearted way, like suggest coffee or something, so that it doesn't seem like a date.
2006-10-18 08:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one that you like the most and the other one tell him sorry but you like someone else
2006-10-18 08:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy you don't like that you are flattered by his affection but you don't feel the same way and that you are sorry.
Try talking to the guy you actually like.
2006-10-18 08:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, if the other guy likes you, he will still like you even if you go out with the other guy. okay! whoever you are supposed to end up being with, that is who you will end up being with. don't think about it too much and don't analyze it too much. if you both are meant to be together, you will both know it and you will both end up being together.
2006-10-18 08:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Peaches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very difficult situation. Better tell and clarify the one you dont like him so that things start moving smoothly.
2006-10-18 08:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
approch the one that you like and ask him to go out and see what happens.
2006-10-18 08:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by jim b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋