can not stop crying over this guy that hurt me so bad and if he would call me right now i would back whit him i love him that much am i that crazy? or what? i just know i love him and want him back,,,
2006-10-18 08:18:24 · 14 answers · asked by renee m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try lovespells. they work.
2006-10-18 08:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, You need to ask yourself why you two are not together?
Second, You need to decide if the reason you want this guy back in your life is for selfish reasons or for the both of you?
Third, It's never worth crying over a guy cause if he's knows that it hurts you then he's going to take his time if he truly wants you back.
The best thing to do is hold your head up high and say "I am better than that I don't need a man to validate me."
Once you can say "Hey I don't need him to have fun." Then he will see that you are having a good time without him and he might just come crawling back to you..... I know you love him and are crazy about him but you can't make a heart love somebody. So if indeed he loves you and wants to be with you give it time he will see and come crawling back. Hang in there sweetie......Much love form ya sister........
2006-10-18 15:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cathleen Spencer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHERE YOU IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF BEING IN LOVE?
it happens a lot. people want to fill a void in the own life by thinking that if there in a relationship everything will be okay. It doesn't work like that , I'm really sorry that he hurt you, buy yourself some good breakup music ( i liked linkon park) and listen to it get angry at him for how he made you feel, write him a letter and tell him how hurt and angry you are but don't send it read it to yourself out loud then burn it. And start an exercise program it will boost your energy and self esteem. Trust that when you start being selfish with your own personal needs the universe will bring some one in your life that will be your friend first then your lover.
2006-10-18 15:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone , you just love that person. No one can tell you to stop crying. Most people understand about crying and love. First, why did you break-up. Was it something that you just can't live with or is it something that you can work out. But, if it because he found someone else, then you better have a very good cry. Call your girlfriends, invite them over, talk about and release it. It not going to happen over night but someday you look back a say " I found something better".
2006-10-18 15:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can really be difficult to get over someone - I've been there- I couldn't even sleep at night hoping that he would call me. Finally I went out got my hair done nails done, the works. Step out with some friends got a few phone numbers and moved on with my life. have not though of him since. Dude has been replaced and guess what this dud is even better.
You are not in love with him you're in lust with him.
2006-10-18 15:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear heavy heart, God sees your hurt and He wants to heal you if you allow Him to. What has happen is that you and this guy has entered into a soul bond that was meant for marriage only. It hurt being hurt but God is the only one who could heal the broken heart. If you right now decide in your heart that you would allow God to be the head of your life He would began to heal you and show you things that the natural mind couldn't. He will began to comfort you where no human could comfort. Believe me He feels your hurt and He's ready to heal you right now. He has that special person for you who would love you unconditionally. Think about what I said and give God a try He loves you. God bless
2006-10-18 15:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can make you cry this much, this long, he's not worth your tears. Get out of the house, go out with the girls, get a new hobby, sport, lifestyle, whatever. Get your mind off him, and on to other things. He's not worth crying over. No man is.
Live your life for you. Not someone else.
2006-10-18 15:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Allycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that the turth I am still crying over this guy it's been almost a yr. I know how you feel about that and if he call I will get back with him
2006-10-18 15:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh girl i am sorry about that
I am in the same situation. i split up with my ex 10 weeks ago and i was and still am totally in love with him. He really hurt me, he dumped me and went back with his ex. we have had no contact at all
But i can say that it is getting a little bit easier. i would go back like a shot if i could but i know also that i deserve better,
Give it time and keep your chin up.
if he hurt you than he does not deserve you like mine does not deserve me, you can do better the same as what i can.
Try and smile it will be worth it in the end believe me. keep going girl we can do it!
2006-10-18 17:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are ! 'CRAZY'
No! You don't. 'LOVE HIM' it is fear!
Your are just lazy.
You have no pride in your self.
WHAT was that WORD hurt???
Now you want us to feel sorry for you? and you want the hurt back! 'SMART'.
Can I use the Word stupid without you getting pushed out of shape because crazy might excuse your ignorance.
A loving and wholesome relations don't hurt or make you cry.
I wish I could be your sister. I'd straighten you out and kick his , --
2006-10-18 15:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop crying and move on with your life because i'm sure he is doing that
2006-10-18 15:39:57 · answer #11 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋