I mean, I'm funny, smart, and kinda buff. Why cant I get a girl to like me? True, I have a little bit of fat, but who doesn't ? And if its a money issue there's no problem...I'm loaded. I just don't get it. Please help me.
2006-10-18 08:14:39 · 23 answers · asked by demonic_gatekeeper_666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww that's sad. Well all girls aren't the same. But I just like the simple things. I like to be held, cuddled, spent time with, I like to be talked to and told funny jokes. I have been having some trouble with mine also. But its just that I want more time with my boyfriend, we just had our baby and things have been so busy lately and guess what he did for me yesterday that made my life so much better- well he had to work yesterday and go to school, but when he came home last night he handed me the sweetest card ever. Just to show how much he loved me. It was so sweet and he also wrote a few words himself. I think you should do this for your girl. Trust me- it will make it a lot better. And maybe take her out to the movies, and Olive Garden (they have a awesome sale right now..all you can eat pasta"never ending pasta bowl" and all you can eat sald and bread sticks for $7.99. That will make her happy. I hope your love life gets better with my advice. I wish you the best.
2006-10-18 08:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by lil_soldier_girl_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. When you are having a hard time hooking up with a few girls it can seem to be a real puzzler. I think your understanding of how the dating process works may be a little reversed. Things that you have to offer, like money, large build, and so on are not what gets you the initial date. It's all about the finesse you use when you ask them out. It's about social tact. If you say something tacky or egotistical they will be repulsed, even if you really do have a lot to brag about. And, in general, women don't have a sense of humor like guys do, so if you are a funny guy, women may be offended by your humor if you are really blunt about it. Hope I have shed some light.
2006-10-18 08:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl wants someone who is caring, loving and affectionate. To me, money is not an issue. I think if a person has a good personality and a good head on their shoulders that is a plus. For instance, I am a single mom of a 8 year old son with ADHD and ODD and it is hard to find a caring guy that will stick around. I hope I have been somewhat helpful. Basicly, you just need to be your self and hopefully you find someone you loves you for you.
2006-10-18 08:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by julie_loves_music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. this is going to sound stupid, and you probable won't pay attention to me besides yet ... I provide help to recognize this from previous journey. a million. there are various, many women obtainable. She wasn't your first female chum, and odds are, she can not be your final one. 2. women, for some unusual reason, consistently opt for what they are able to't have, and this would possibly not replace till your are nicely in to your Nineteen Twenties. 3. on your case, the appropriate suggestion i'm going to offer you is ... in simple terms bypass with the flow, have exciting, and luxuriate in existence with all your buddies. On that, if considered one of your buddies in simple terms happens to be a woman, then do not worry ... she has acquaintances, you have acquaintances. do not thoroughly forget approximately her acquaintances, be friendly and well mannered once you're around them, yet you have the lady, not them. If she knows of you're worried approximately them, and it starts off exhibiting (by utilising what you do ... calling or texting her all night and day, exhibiting up at her abode or after classification without calling or texting first --- think of deadly attraction, the action picture). then she can slowly sense further and extra such as you're suffocating her, and at last she can interrupt up with you. interior the tip, that's all approximately self assurance. believe me, It happens to each guy, no count how he seems or how plenty funds he has interior the financial organization. Be optimistic in your self, and your relationship. If issues do not artwork out, there are lots greater women obtainable (see #a million above), final corny little bit of suggestion? pay attention to Brad Paisley's "Letter to Me" track ... pay attention to it, and pay attention the messages. i could not provide help to recognize something greater suitable than what that track says. stable luck guy. know you're actually not likely by using something we've not all long exceeded by using in the past.
2016-11-23 17:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by eatough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the women I know what honesty, being witty helps, and have social graces. Being truthful and make other laugh is very important.
I've also found the best way to meet women is not really be looking for a relationship! About the time you become comfortable with your life it seems like women come out of the woodwork!
2006-10-18 08:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hmmm what do girls want. Girls want the guy that listens to their problems, and not only that but they want a guy that will tell them their problems. They want someone that cares and wants to share their feelings with them. It can be harder on a guy to do this, but if you find the right one, you can be open with them. They want someone who will be honest with them. They want someone who is good, but not 'too good to be true.' They want someone who is comfortable around their friends and can talk with them, without wanting to get their freak on with their friends. Listen more often, put out just a little more effort, and not the effort of stalker type. Someone that makes them realize they can call them at 3 a.m. and no matter what they'll pay attention, and listen. So, pick your chin up, it's going to be alright, and by the way extra weight has nothing to do with personality. Your personality is key. Outgoing, witty, and attentive makes up your personality. It'll get better I swear. :)
2006-10-18 08:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by lacymichelle38901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing, don't advertise your money, you'll attract the wrong type of girl. And who are you trying to get to like you? Is it a specific girl? Or girls in general? I bet someone out there must like you, and if you're aiming for a specific girl, she might just not be into you. You have to have compatability as well, for example, I listen to hardcore music, and I wouldn't date a guy who lives a hip-hop lifestyle just because he is all of the above. You need things in common.
2006-10-18 08:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by These Fights 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just give it time, you will find someone that loves you the way you are. I mean you are funny and smart that's great for a guy to have in him. There's allot of girls out there that are looking for a guy like you.You will find love don't worry.
2006-10-18 08:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by SMILEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl I can tell you, we want to be treated like we are the center of your universe. Money isn't as important as being romantic and creative. If your are sweet enough we can all get past a little fat.
2006-10-18 08:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by poppyspock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "get" a girl to like you... you just be yourself and people will either like you or not. And consider what aspects of your personality are not so likeable and work on improving those parts of yourself! Most women don't care if a guy is "loaded", especially if they flaunt it a lot, some of us see that as obnoxious and too materialistic.
2006-10-18 08:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋