Questions for the ladies..why?

Question

1. You know how all guys when they pass a good looking girl on the street or wherever, we'll always turn and look back to get another look as they walk away. Why is it that girls almost never turn to look at a good looking guy when he passes? Girls almost ignore us sometimes in public. Are girls that damn snobby? Girls never give me a second look and I'm an attractive guy who is told I'm hot all the time. I'd love to get that second look!

2. Why is it that when a girl sees a guy naked in person or wherever they always laugh and its no big deal to them? When guys, see a naked girl anywhere its like we're instantly aroused and it's like damn!!!

3. Why do girls say they want a guy to be good to them and when he is, they aren't happy and dump him for an asshole?? I'm a great guy, gentleman and I don't treat women like crap but it gets me nowhere.

Answer 1

1. Women take it all in the first time, we don't need a second look, PLUS men love looking at a woman's ***...women like hair, eyes, smiles, clothes, shoes...and well the obvious all determined by the initial front view.

2. Women are strange creatures, we are conditioned to cover up how we really feel or think by giggling - trust me, naked men turn us on, we just don't have the same equipment that make it so obvious.

3. TRUST ME...and I speak from experience...good girls like bad boys, BUT it gets old, after playing on the dark side and being mistreated for a while, good girls always end up with the good guys, its just a matter of timing!

Good luck to ya, and don't be so discouraged!

Answer 2

Whoa...wait a minute...how old are you? I would give you a second look anytime....Any guy naked in front of me is, well, depends on my mood and our relationship. If we were practically complete strangers and he did that, I honestly don't know what I would do. I like tha end of that #3...great guy, GENTLEMAN, and you don't treat women like crap, now that is class to us women. If you are hot, and you want to get that second look, I think what it is, is that some girls think you are conceived. Some guys are, some guys aren't. WE don't always laugh, and no, I have never seen a naked guy in person, but I would never laugh, it's just not what I do. I think what it is with the dumping thing is that a lot of girls nowadays are in for the 'bad boy' image as we all know. It might get you what it seems like nowhere now, but it gets you farther in the long run. A girl will come, and she will be devoted to you, and let's just leave it with an "and they lived happily ever after." sort of thing. They are happy when they are with a good guy, but some girls would rather be seen with some pimp or gansta or whatever on the streets. It is just the way some girls float. It is not every one of us girls that do that.

Answer 3

1. I have no problem giving a guy a second look because I am hot and birds of a feather flock together.
I might even initiate a conversation

2.I am aroused when I see a naked guy but I am not drooling. I am sophisticated so I turn away and just take a mental pic.

3. Girls want a badass because it's a challenge and it's hot when they grow up (which yes woman need to do too) they realize what is best for them and move on.

Answer 4

Ok first of all, girls and guys are very different.
1. The guy has to be something very special, he has to be absolutly gorgeous! Not just hot, or cute. He has to be someone out of the ordinary that catches my eye. Iv done the look back thing a couple times only because I was so amazed at how insanely gorgeous the guy was. You dont get the "look back" cause your probably just an average hot guy, nothing special.

2. Cause girls are not as easily turned on like guys are. They laugh cause the dude is probably either scrawney, or fat, or has a small penis.

3. Girls like a s s holes cause they are more daring, more dangerous, exciting, live on the edge... for the thrill of dating a bad boy. Bad boys are hot! Its just how most females are. But luckily for you not every girl out there likes a s s holes or laughs at naked dudes.

Answer 5

1) Girls do look. We automatically know how to look at a guy from head to toe without turning our head I guess it's a gift. For those women who you think are not or have not looked at you trust me they have, but what are they going to do walk up to you and say hey I just looked at you didn't you see me "not". When we get mad at our guys what we are really saying is "yeah we both look"' but how come you can't do it the way we do by not having to turn your head because since we are able to do it we know it can be done, and we feel guys are being disrespectful and just choosing not to do it.

2) Laughing is just our first reaction. We can't always tell you what really think #1 because we probably would be to embarrassed to put it into words, and #2 we might just don't want to hurt your feelings.

3) We do want a guy to be good to us but we also want a challenge. Contrary to what most men believe women like to have boundaries. We like to say "No I can't do that because he will get mad at me or I will get in trouble". We want a man who will not let us walk all over him because if he lets us we will. We want someone who will treat us right, but give us a few rules. Treat us with respect, but make us aware of our boundaries. Love us hard, but let us know when we have crossed the line. A true gentleman rarely can give you both, and that's where your problem comes in.

I hope this helped.

Answer 6

Well, for one, women are much more discreet at a lot of things. The second look probably comes much more than you realize. Men sometimes need to get hit in the head with a hammer for them to realize what's going on. (Not all men).

As for getting aroused, we dont' have anything that gives us away like men do. Chances are, we are just as aroused, but are more embarassed to say anything. Myself personally, I love watching adult tv, magazines, etc. Doesn't mean I'm going to read one, then go around telling everyone I'm horny right?

Some girls just can't see what they have in front of them until it's too late. Some people I should say.
And, there's always the "grass is always greener" syndrome. That is a killer to a lot of people.

Answer 7

1. I am one of the few that gives that second look. Then what, are you going to come over and sweep me off my feet? When I do give the look and he sees, they never follow up - they run off like scared little boys with their tail between their legs... intimidated. Damned if I do, damned if I don't.
2. The male body is a humorous thing, and guys don't seem to be bothered by being seen naked. I'm always aftaid of what the guy will think of my body - it's not cover girl or anything. I think guys are programmed with that sow the oats thing, if there is a p ussy nearby, the compass points north. It's not your fault - we kinda like that, makes us feel powerful and attractive. Just as long as you're not too forward with it.
3. Try being that bad boy in bed. Occasionally we need that kinda thing in controlled amounts. I love gentlemen in daylight as long as they have a wicked sense of humor and are open to naughty fun. I need the bad boy in the sack - need it.

Answer 8

1. We do turn around we are just so much better at it that you never notice.
2. Personally, I don't laugh. I never would. I think naked guys are incredible hot.
3. You just haven't found the right woman. All women want a man to be good to them. Otherwise, they are not women, but still just girls.

Answer 9

We do take a second look at men that are worth it. We just dont make it so obvious like you guys.
Women aren't visual so it takes us more than seeing you naked to get aroused.
Girls aren't dumping guys because there good to them. There is much more involved than that. Dont you think nice girls get dumped all the time for the hot bitchy one's ?

Answer 10

First girls do look they just arent as blatantly obvious about it as guys
Second because men and womens brains work differently
and third The only girls that want a guy thats going to be good to her are girls looking for something more permanant in the mean time assholes are fun because we always have a reason to dump them when they bore us