I've never give in so much to a guy in such a short time frame. Before we were in the relationship, I thought he was the guy I've been waiting. Ever since we had sex, he changed. Recently, I can't help feeling unappreciated for all the things I've done for him.
He has not show any signs of ending this relationship. Few times I've been considering leaving him however I hesitated because I really don't want to lose someone I already love.
Its been very difficult to find another I'd love and miss.
2006-10-18 08:07:12 · 7 answers · asked by Laetishaa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have communicated my thoughts to him and he's always saying he'll try to be nicer. Sometimes, he is though its a rare thing now.
2006-10-18 08:44:23 · update #1
You know what? Welcome to the world of the AVERAGE man. And so not to offend anyone, I'm not saying all men. The average man.
Usually it takes a little comfort in a relationship, then the real person shines through. Sex=comfort, comfort=your aren't going anywhere now, so I can be finally.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 08:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Allycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you really need to considered carefully if he is the right guy for you. You have been with him for three months only yet he have changed after both of you had sex. Sorry to say this I thnk he is more of lust rather than love you. it is never easy to find someone you love and he also love you.
But considering the fact that he have changed and unappreicate you, you have to made a decision if you are going to leave him or feel more worse by staying with him. The choice is yours
2006-10-18 20:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tricky one.
I think I will have to think real hard.
Look I know its not easy to let go of some1 u love.
But love is never onesided. N it looks like hes just taking adv. of u.
After sex most guys start takin d girl 4 granted.
I think u shud dump dis guy as soon as possible bcuz of ur last line. Ive been ther so many times. U shud never never be wt some1 bcuz u think u cant find another person.
That, baby doll is surely not love !! 1 day u wil regret staying on.
Y ru afraid of being single. Is much betta than be in a miserable relaionship.
The longer u stay here d more ur gonna suffer.
2006-10-18 15:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Typhoid Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that feeling. Ur not alone dear. We all do that and wonder why he has to be that way. I just broke up with mine from a 8 yr relationship. Still love him,alot, but life goes on. Maybe he learned his lesson from me breaking up with him.
Sometimes I wonder why we fall for the losers. They can be better if they want to be for u. Some do that just to get rid of u and we don't see the signs/hints they give.
Believe me they regret this break up later in life while ur happy with someone new.
2006-10-18 15:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by datslife_huh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has only been 3 months and he is treating you like crap, then he will continue to do so and maybe even get worse. Get out now, trust me, been here done this. Trust me on another thing, Mr. Right will come along, when you least expect it. It has taken me many men and 30 yrs to get my Mr. Right. He showed up when I lease expected and when I had given up on trying. Run now!!! You don't deserve to be treated that way. Good luck.
2006-10-18 15:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he jus wan to try on you. Better leave him early u dun to get more hurt from him right?
2006-10-19 03:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aki him about it..tell is what your feeling.maybe he wants to leave you but feels the same way you do about it.he doesnt want to leave you because he loves you or just doesnt want to hurt you
2006-10-18 15:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋