and how long between relationships should i move on?
2006-10-18 07:49:21 · 22 answers · asked by .:.:.Mizz_undaStood.:.:. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In some cultures, they do not have sex until marriage. But, I say, wait until you truly feel ready. Do it when you are really in love and you are CERTAIN he loves you too. This may take some time. Do NOT put out, just because you want to win any favors or because you think it will make him love you more. It will not.
If you love sex, just for the fun of it - heck, go for it. But if you want something meaningful, emotionally, take it slow and only give yourself to someone really special.
As for the time needed between relationships: Wait until the old relationship is COMPLETELY over. You do not want to be dating someone, only to have an ex (you're still longing for) show up and complicate matters.
2006-10-18 07:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pangit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on you! The "moral" thing is to wait til marriage, but we ALL know that rarely happens. I look at it this way, the one thing that all (heterosexual) men and women have in common is sex. If the spark is there, why avoid the inevitable, but just be smart about it - having sex with someone is not a sure fire way that there will be a relationship or anything more serious the following day. If you are ready, and when the time comes, go for it, but don't use sex to fill some void left after a break up, allow yourself the time to move on before allowing a rebound relationship to take over. Good Luck!
2006-10-18 07:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year
2006-10-18 07:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as YOU feel you need to (on both questions) You are going to have to wake up every morning and look at yourself in the mirror. Do what makes you feel comfortable, and if they are really worthy of you having sex with them, they will respect any length of time you decide on! I heard that you should stay single (and get over or mourn) you last relationship, 1 month for every year you were together, or 1 week, for every month you were together... just a thought.
2006-10-18 07:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lived Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 3 date rule works well for when to have sex, if you don't feel enough chemistry to by then you probably won't, sooner than the third date is slutty.
As to how long between, whenever you feel ready, don't wallow in self pity, get out and move on with your life.
2006-10-18 07:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are lots of factors to consider
whats your and his age?
how long have you known this person (not just dating)?
do you love him?
are you ready?
to me, i think you should wait at least till you've been dating a few months. (if you are an adult and have good answers to all the above questions)
but if you are a teenager, then wait till you're at least 20
and as far as moving on to a new relationship, be careful, you dont want to move too fast or you could be just filling the void with somebody new, first you need to be ok by yourself, then you can be with someone new.
2006-10-18 07:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long about a mouth if you don't want to be called names. how long between relationships should you move on. Well as soon as your heart tells you to.
2006-10-18 07:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no time limit to having sex with someone you're dating it's not required that you have sex with a person because you date them. you may never feel that way about someone . So follow your heart and be smart about it.
2006-10-18 07:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by tezken1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until your wedding night to have sex. Or at the very least, when you're wearing an engagement ring. If you're going to risk pregnancy, AIDS/HIV, herpes, warts, and other STD's, plus emotional attachement and involvement, he better be committed to you, and protecting your heart, body and soul.
2006-10-18 07:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a good one,there is no set standard these days but believe me wait till the time is right for you not him,don't let him pressure you coz if he does then you will know he is only in it for the sex ,then it is time to move on
2006-10-18 07:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋