some people have clean young times,they have a dream of the perfect person that they quit ,then marry someone just to fail ,in some cases they do it again , does that mean for those persons that help to find someone truly compatible is necesary?
2006-10-18 07:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by robertman30s 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes..a perfect example would be my sister. Married a horrible gut at 31 and divorced at 32..Married her dream guy at 38 and been happy for 5 years :-)
2006-10-18 07:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compatibility depends as much on the internal factors as it does on the external ones. I would say, someone who keeps "failing" in relationships doesn't do so because the other person "was not compatible", but largely because of their own bad choices, and inability to sustain a healthy relationship. I hate to use a cliché, but change comes from within.
2006-10-18 07:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 8yrs. and woke up one day and realized: This is not where I want to be in life, or who I want to be with!!! ( I had just turned 30). I told my husband how I felt and he laughed and said I'd NEVER find the perfect man for me, that NO ONE would ever make me happy. Well, he wasn't laughing when he got his divorce papers! Nor was he laughing when I accidentally met Mr. Right and got remarried the same year I got divorced!! Much to my surprise....there WAS someone out there just for me!! I've been married to him for 3yrs. now, and have 2 beautiful babies with him! (we work fast). Funny.....the thought of having children never even entered my mind with my first husband,and I couldn't wait to have them when I met my current hubby!! funny how things work out! I couldnt be happier, even though I feel like my life didn't even start til the age of 31 when I met my "true" love and started my family!!!!
2006-10-18 07:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do make mistakes,that's what makes them human,there are people out there who thought they found the right person only to find out down the road they weren't,I can say from experiance that if at first you don't succeed try try again,I did and still trying. been a widow for 2 years and been through 3 marriages still haven't found the right one but will keep trying.
2006-10-18 07:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait. I dated a long of wrong people for me and I got sick of it. If you stop looking for it and/or expecting it, the right one will come along. At least that is how it worked for me and some of my friends. Some people are destined to not get married, I think. Keep your chin up, though. Everyone deserves love.
2006-10-18 07:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
If your married right now, then that marriage is a lifelong commitment
Things always look greener on the other side, but trust me i know from experience
no one is perfect
not even you
try marriage counseling
2006-10-18 07:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case I had to marry my first husband in PA so that we could move to NY and have my sons. But I had to be here in NY because one year after my ex and I split I met my present husband.
2006-10-18 07:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥cinnamonmj♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 46..and i am waiting for the right person..but does he exist? i have been throu 2 failed marriages...and i won't settle for 2 nd best anymore...i hope in time i will find the right person..and for you..you will also...never rush into anything...communication...honesty..compromise..respect and honor..makes a good relationship....
2006-10-18 07:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by debbie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes make a list of what you want then ask for it in prayer and wait for God to answer simple.
2006-10-18 07:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means they are only human and learn through trial
and error..Their time will hopefully come and it will happen on
its own. Maybe it will be sooner maybe later...
2006-10-18 07:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by shyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋