I need to know how to date a person(it may sound dumb, but Im clueless to dating). Does a relationship start out monogamus, or are they almost open. Is sex wrong on the first date even if the other person still communicates with you afterwards and want to work on a friendship? And - What is the definiton of these terms.....
1. Friends with benefits
2. F*ck buddies
2006-10-18 07:23:40 · 9 answers · asked by gabs2222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter what we think, it's all up to you. Talk to your partner and discuss things with them, and just go with the flow. Never do anything unless it feels 100% right and unless you are totally happy with your disision.
2006-10-18 07:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by bxiok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find someone you want to date, approach her in suddle ways, she will get the clue and if you can tell she is attracted to you, then ask her out. After about 2 or 3 dates and you both feel comfortable around each other talk a little dirty to her make a move and if you can tell she likes it, ask her if she wants to f*** if she says yes, begin the foreplay and then please her. Do not sleep around in a relationship unless the two of you have made it clear that's what you both want.
Friends with benefits is friends who have sex , but are nothing more, F*uck buddies is pretty much the same thing, I would not suggest either for a healthy relationship.
2006-10-18 07:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating should come naturally if you just be yourself, i know thats hard when its with someone you like,all of us want to potray our self better than we actually are, thats ok for the first few dates, after that its time to get real. get to know that person better, ask questions, make good conversation. open up, not too much, just enough to show that your interested in proceeding. they should not just start out monogamus but should be that way through out, if you trully like someone you want to be with only them. sex is very wrong on the first date, it shows what your in the relationship for, and sex is a wrong reason wait for atleaste a month, sex should take you to the next level help you feel good about yorself and the relationship your in. term one. is being friends, you know hanging out, and having sex on the side with no romantical geelings attached, just helping each other out on the horny aspect. term two is similar but the main baises of the friendship is to have sex then talk or whatever afterwards still with out feelings
2006-10-18 07:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my era sex on the first date was wrong ,if the person really cared about you would build a monogamus relationship first,sex on first date usually means that ,that's all they wanted to begin with. as for the second part they are one in the same
2006-10-18 07:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels comfortable!
but I would say if you respect yourself, be monogamous and do not have sex until you are in a long term relationship.
Friends with benefits and **** buddies are the same thing. They're people who have sex but are just friends and don't go out. Personally I don't think this is a healthy relationship. Then again, a lot of people are less prudish than me, im probably a minority.
2006-10-18 07:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wanttoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy who used to date alot. Then I got married..
If you want to find a great guy, this how you do it.
Boys get bored very easy, so be fun, funny and have a good time.
But Boys also are looking for sex for the most part.
You need to date alot, but never have sex with them untill your sure they are a great person you want to have a future with.
Sex only makes thing harder, so be patient and have fun. But don't be dumb. Boys will use you for sex and then run and tell all their friend that your a slut or some thing..
So have class and be fun and you will do fine..
Remember if you do have sex have protection.. PLease
2006-10-18 07:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the definitions of those terms are pretty much the same it's people or friends who you generally just have sex with, like booty calls. it's ok to have sex on the first date if you really know the person.
2006-10-18 07:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are what you make them.
1. and 2. are the same thing.
Check on the net, you'll fidn lots of literature on the subject!
2006-10-18 07:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits-your friends but you can kiss and sleep with each other
**** Buddies- when your horny, you give him a call and you dont need to be friends...
No kissing on first date
No Sex on first date..that is if you dont want to come out easy..
2006-10-18 07:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋