I have been told by plenty of gals that I am good looking. I am pretty intelligent, succesful, considerate etc. I cant get a gal to look my way or even give me a chance. I am not rude when I approach women and I dont use corny pick up lines. It seems that only the ******* get the gals. Whats going on here!
2006-10-18 07:21:29 · 22 answers · asked by teenypurplebinky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll get someone better than all the girls that assholes get, you'll get a genuine girl that is dead crazy about you, hold on
2006-10-18 07:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by ~sexybiatch~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age- you are absolutely right! women have really really really high expectations during the years from 16- about 26 or so. If the women you are looking for are somewhere in there then good luck! Later in life I would say that they not so much settle or even lower their expectations they simply find more about what it is they are looking for!
If you don't have a sweet looking car, pimp clothes, money to waiste, and lots of free time to spare then you are not a good canidate for dating girls 16-26! I am in some ways being honest and I guess some ways being unfair because there are many women out there that are not gold diggers but there sure are plenty of them too! Best to keep your eyes open but keep them on the prize, are you in school? Best to finshi that and get settled in life before you even attempt to want a long term relationship with a lady because unless they are just looking for a f u c k buddy then that is what they ultimately want and if you are not willing then hearts will be broken!
2006-10-18 14:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a known quantity, a safe man. The females you are probably interested in like more adventurous and sporting types. Having been there myself, stop acting like a happy puppy and put some serious, experienced, and aloof measures to your manner. That isn't to say you should have no sense of humor, women love it when a man can make them laugh and smile--but not the laughter and smiles that children generate. You don't have to be hard and a "******" to get the girls, but you do have to make sure the girls see you are one of the men, not still among the boys.
Additionally, watch the kind of girl you go for. The popular and pretty cheerleader types know they are prime cuts, but there are oodles of others with less flash and flare that are dejected and reciting their personal credo "Why won't the nice guys notice me?" If you are spending all your attention on the girls that are center stage, you are missing some spectacular finds on the periphery.
So, straighten up, screw up some courage, scout out the overlooked gems, be yourself, and go for it.
2006-10-18 14:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, you are a little too nice... Do you know what I mean?.. honestly woman/girls love it when men are out going, talkative, and cocky, and not shy, but come on!!! In a natural way!.. Don't try tooo hard. See I am a very attractive young woman and I dated a guy who was not so attractive. I really loved the fact that he was sooo secure of him self, and he was talkative and out going, and for sure, "a sweet talker." So just learn the guys rule. lol Good Luck
P.s. And you said that people tell you that you are good looking, then it will be even easier! You may just have to change the fact that you are maybe a little too nice and etc...
2006-10-18 14:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what do the ******* have that you don't?
Ever thought about that?
Women must FEEL something, intelligence and consideration don't make them feel anything.
Ever tease a girl before? You know, playfully say rude things to her? Ever joke with a girl? Act like she's all in to you and you could care less?
Try it!! It's soooooooo much fun!
2006-10-18 14:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem. Women like masculine guys, that's why people say nice guys finish last. Not true it's just that guys that are jerks tend to have more masculine traits. Be confident in who you are and hold your head up. Being nice to girls is great, but don't let them mistake you niceness for weakness or you'll find yourself in the "friend zone". I was the same way for years, and now I've got a fantastic girlfriend. Remember you are a man act like one!
2006-10-18 14:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of gals like the bad-boy type. The ******* like you said. I know I am one. But hang in there she is out there somewhere.
2006-10-18 14:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by 10 to 20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what ur getting at. I also notice that alot of girls go for the ***;s . its pretty stupid cuz they just end up getting hurt and the good guys get girls that dont appreciate and take advantage of them. As a girl I guess an explanation for that would be that alot of girls are attracted to a bad boy I dont give a damn attitude..seriouusly I would advise u to stick it out and wait for the girl that is actually going to love and care about you and be there for you not the first girl that looks your way... it will work out better that way. plus at least you know ur not ugly since alot of girls tel you u are good looking. let me know how it goes..byez
2006-10-18 14:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by canadien_eh? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and I know for a fact most girls go for your type, but you might seem a bit to sure of yourself (it says it all in the question) lol, either that or girls don't know how to approach you, maybe they think you dont like the idea of girlfriends, etc etc this is probably because girls like it if guys make the first move, so go on, dont wait for them to come and talk to you, duh, get ahead!
2006-10-18 14:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be more out going. Some like to be treat wrong and that gets attention and some just may not want you because you may send off the wrong impression with your good looks and all.
2006-10-18 14:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww....well where are you meeting these girls?? if its in a bar or a club, well hate to break it to you, we are looking for the bad boys for that night to hang with at the club, BC it is excitement!! knowing that we can have who we choose at that moment, and if we are feeling bad...then we need a bad boy for that moment!!
But we always want the nice guys, because we know they would treat is like a pricess and cherish us!! Some of us just make really bad decisions......sorry
2006-10-18 14:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋