when is my step mother going to realize im going to step on her image of me ?

Answer 1

Why would you do that? Don't do anything that would, in effect, bounce back and hurt yourself in anyway....as an example, I know this guy whose daughter hated the chick he was gonna marry, like hated her so much but the chick was always nice to the girl, anyway, the girl got pregnant "on purpose" to "show them", like "This'll show them" and instead, the only thing it showed was how dumb she was for getting knocked up "out of spite". And now she has a spite baby. And she doesnt like her baby but GET THIS...HER STEPMOM LOVES THE BABY and now wants to adopt the baby and the girl is like freaking out OUT OF SPITE and wont let them adopt the kid. It's like watching a novela! OF SPITE!
What was the question? Ok, I think I answered it.

Answer 2

Are you saying that your step mother thinks your some kind of angel and you are afraid of stepping on her image of you and disappointing her....
Or are you saying you are going to step on your step mothers image of you out of spite....?
If it is the former, she will love you none the less as long as you try, that is all any parent/step parent can ask for...
If it is the latter, then what are the circumstances? Is she cruel to you, are you jealous because she has the love and affection of your father...?
How old are you?
I think you need to analyse your situation, if it bothers you that much in either of the above contexts, then you need to sit down with both your father and her and discuss how you are feeling....
If you don't feel you can talk to them at all, try writing a letter to your father, or speak to a teacher, close family friend, who may have more success in conveying your feelings to him/them as an impartial party.

Good luck

Answer 3

she may never realize.
so it's up to you how you respond to her and how you allow yourself to behave/react.