I have this ex-boyfriend who I still love but not sure that I can be with him again. I thought he was the man I was going to marry we had been together for 8 years when he decided to just stop talking to me when I went away to Medical school. He broke my heart. Not to mention almost helped me fail out because the only thing that I could do was cry. At first I wanted nothing more than for him to talk to me and tell me he still loved me but he wouldn't even take my calls. Then I went home on a break and we sort of got back together but the more I thought about the more I realized that I didn't know if I could ever trust him again or forgive him. I know that at the time when he stopped talking to me he was heavy into vicodine and has since gotten treatment but he is going to be a nurse and it scares me.It was that easy for him to close the door on me then I need his support. What if he did it to me again once we were married? Should I just forget him or should I give him my heart?
2006-10-18 07:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by *funlittlelady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him. Do you honestly want to go down a road you've already traveled? I know from experience honey. Never go back. Its twice as painful the second time.
2006-10-18 07:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear heavy heart just know that Jesus knows how you feel. I do suggest that you continue to seek your goals. If someone truly loves you they would be there for you no matter what. obviously he had second thoughts about you. But God has great plans for you. He has a ram in the bush for you. smile. Also you wouldn't want to give your heart to someone who stumped on it all those years anyway. stay encourage and stay focus God loves you and HE has the best husband for you that will love you like he does. God bless you
2006-10-18 07:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously an intelligent woman, but you are not making any sense. Why would you even consider getting involved with a drug abuser who has treated you like dirt? You must have self esteem issues to even consider it. Think about your career and how it could be ruined by your involvement with this train wreck of a relationship. Move on and don't look back.
2006-10-18 07:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who are nice and proper are nice and proper from the start ... similarly jack asses can never change,irrespective of what they go through. he is not worth ur time or emotions.. u deserve someone better.dont let him lure u back into the relationship.. above all let ur heart decide.. what does ur gut say.. if u were sure about him u would not be posting this question.. guess that answers it. good luck
2006-10-18 07:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by howiwishicould 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Med school should be your top priority now. Focus on that and forget him.
2006-10-18 07:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you give your car to a drunk ?you wouldn't so be as careful with who you give your love to.
2006-10-18 07:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on
2006-10-18 07:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋