I sent him a casual text yesterday evening even though I kinda knew he was busy. We went out a couple of times and hung out at eachothers houses. He makes it seem like he cares about me. Did I ruin it by texting him? What should I do now?
2006-10-18 07:06:51 · 12 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't look too much into it, if he was busy maybe he looked at the message and didn't have time to respond or something else happened. Just don't overthink this, it probably means nothing that he didn't respond, just carry on normally. Good luck!
2006-10-18 07:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you did not ruin it by texting him. If he really likes you, he'll be glad he got a text and that's not exactly coming on too strong. If you called him three times, that might have ruined things. I would wait until you run into him and then say, hey, did you get my text message? Maybe he didn't get it. Or if he did and he's not interested you can tell by the tone and body language when he answers.
2006-10-18 14:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text him again. He knows that you called. If he wants to talk with you he will. In the mean time don't wait around for a response either. Get busy. When he finally does call make sure it isn't at an unreasonable hour in which case you will know that it is just a "bootie call".
2006-10-18 14:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by kane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he ever sent you a text? if no, i would have waited until he texted me the first time before i sent him one - you probably didn't ruin it, he may not want that level of communication yet - sometimes texting gets annoying and i don't always answer guys texts rite away so i would not make a big deal out of it - just wouldn't do it again for a while.
2006-10-18 14:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, men aren't interested in text messages. Most men don't even check these messages. Its just not very important to a guy, he may not have even read the message. You're best bet is to call him and just talk to him. Even better yet, go visit him and talk to him about it. Texts are not a serious enough medium to discuss relationships over.
2006-10-18 14:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was busy, and couldn't get back to you.So just wait till you hear from him,but if you can't, send another one to"make sure he is OK, since he didn't respond to your text" . If you don't hear from him, he probably doesn't want to be bothered.
2006-10-18 14:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either a) he was to busy to respond b) might think you're smothering, or c) around another woman... yeah some of us are jerks. The rest you'll have to find out, hope that helps
2006-10-18 14:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Matt F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not... do you harrass him with Txt Messages and phone calls? If not then maybe he never got it or he doesn't know how to check it (sounds funny but often the case). If you do harrass him, maybe he's just not ready for all that attention.
Goodluck
2006-10-18 14:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and stop being paranoid.
He's busy or if he never calls again, then he just founf out in the few time you spent together that he doesn't really like you.
2006-10-18 14:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did not ruin it, he did not respond because he has more pieces of pie on his plate that he is working for than just yours, if he wants you he will look for you and if he can care less then you probably wont hear from him at all.
2006-10-18 14:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by John A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋