my girlfriend and i hve tried to have sex and she says that iam squishing her. I dont weigh that much. toothpick. I tried supporting my weight wtih my elbows and up on my hands. what am i doing wrong.
2006-10-18 06:01:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
we are both 18
2006-10-18 06:06:56 · update #1
I thought to try with her on top. But she says that is not very romantic and does not wast to try it. Apparently I or we need to figure a way to do this in only the missionary position
2006-10-18 06:11:53 · update #2
Put two pillows under her hips, then you can kindof be on your knees.
2006-10-18 06:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by jekin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not know exactly how you are going about having sex but you should just try sticking to the missionary position in the beginning. That is where she is laying on her back and then you are on top. Not literally on top of her though. You will not be squishing her in that position if you do it properly. good luck
2006-10-18 13:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While she is on her back, you get on your knees and hold her behind the knees with your hands pulling her into you. That way you are still on top and there is no weight on her. And of course she thinks her being on top isn't very romantic because at her age it's all about the romance. If it hurt for men as much as it does for women the first several times, you would understand why we do have to be romantically stimulated.
2006-10-18 13:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lorie S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her honestly if she even wants to. Also you could just pretend like you don't care about sex and let her come to you but then act like you don't want to squish her and try to make it seem like it's all her idea she fall for it all girls do.
2006-10-18 13:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Babs B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she DOESN'T really want to have intercourse with you. for some reason, she's not coming right out with it and telling you -- try doing some more talking and spending time with each other and nix the sex stuff. how old are you anyway?!!!
2006-10-18 14:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ziva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried from the side? It can work because I'm a stroke survivor and it works for me! No one is on top works great. Good luck and have fun.
2006-10-18 13:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you're supposed to put your wait on her hehe..that's why they call it the missionary.. if she doesn't like it, do it doggie style, butterfly, stand'n hold, spoons, or the right side up missionary/she's on top, or the leap frog =D
2006-10-18 13:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by togamadness 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
****, do it standing up. if you are taller than she is, you should be able to hold her while she is on you. the shower is a great place to do it also. you could lay in the tub and have her on top of you. you'll hurt a little (spine on the bottom), but you'll both feel great.
2006-10-18 13:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by fat girls are happy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will take some time for her to really enjoy it, you should be real patient and use your hands and your tongue a lot more.
Or she needs a more experienced man.
And you need a more experienced woman.
2006-10-18 13:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Chri R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are probably bearing down with your pelvis too much. Go easy, and but some weight on your knees as well.
2006-10-18 13:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋