This guy is so cool, but i am going crazy. He made it seem like he really liked me, took me to his house, came to my house, gave me his home number and wants to see me again! Its been 3 days! No call or text. Should I forget him?
2006-10-18 05:50:50 · 18 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope! Just play it cool... give him a couple more days and if nothing still... press on....BUT... if and when he does call back .. and you feel like his excuse was good enough ....then your decision to keep him a round...Guys are stupid when it comes to rules and just respect for the opposite sex.They are games players in one way or another..and every now then you can whip them into shape and school them the ropes... that's how you know they are worth a flip ! If they actually do what they say they are going to do. HAng in there just don;t take it personal if he doesn't call...HIS LOSS
2006-10-18 05:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jill c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because men live in a completely different time zone as women. If they always called or arrived on time, we would get bored and that would ruin the cat and mouse chase that everybody loves, but refuses to admit.
2006-10-18 12:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Larren B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I asked several guys about this, and they said it's in the little book of dating. They don't want you to think they are desparate, so it's a tradition that they wait...but the kicker is, they can't stand it when they do call - and YOU , as the woman- needs to play their silly little game...and ask who is this? ( Although you know anyway) Because if you know, and let them know you know, they think your desperate, but if you play it off, then they think they need to move fast because some other guy might get you first...I know it's dumb, but these are guys we have to deal with here!!
2006-10-18 13:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats how guys are they are so consumed with themselves they forget who and what...guys think nothing of calling a week later time is not inportant to them chill out give him a few more days ..after 7 days give him call and see whats up wait 7 days. sureill.
2006-10-18 12:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do guys do this??? To get the reaction that you are doing. It's a game. What you should do is either play the same game with him or move on. If someone truly likes you.....they won't act that way. Life is too damn short.
2006-10-18 13:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you want to do?
You did not seem to find out too much about him.
Seem to me, you whambang at his house and then whambang at yours, got your # bye!
Sounds cool by me why you upset? Do you know what kind of probation he is on and that stuff?
Your the happening! Do your thing!
2006-10-18 12:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No hun...don't forget him!! He gave you his number...he's playin' with ya! HE wants to see how LOOOOOOONG you can wait until you talk to him again. I know you wanna pick that phone up right now (and yesterday too) but DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let him call you~~ It's good advice...I think!
Give him a good week...if nothing yet....then maybe just call to say hi and see how he's doing! That's it~
Good luck 2 u
2006-10-18 12:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Q... 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call him, let him know you're interested but.....be busy, then wait to see if he'll make the next move, if not, he's a loser and forget about the dog.
In my oppinion, all men are dogs but we are the dog trainers:0):):)
2006-10-18 12:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Wizard 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's the classic problem that all guys face.
Call too soon and she thinks you're too eager and too easy...therefore you get dumped.
Call too late and she thinks you aren't really interested and too much trouble...therefore you get dumped.
Call RIGHT WHEN she expects you to and then you're a winner.
Care to define when "right when" is?
Advice: if you're really interested, just be patient. There is, however, "too long" (say he waits six months to call, that's too long).
2006-10-18 12:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he gave you his number he is probably waiting for you to call. guys dont want to look too eager by moving too quick, because they fear the woman would think they are desparate. at least thats what i do.
2006-10-18 12:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋