I'v been dating my ex boyfriend brother for over a year now, but i still have feelings for my ex boyfriend. My ex has no problem with me dating his brother. Me and my ex have been slit for over 2 years Know. He was my high school sweetheart. He has a girlfriend know. So How do i stop this feelings. But same time he talks about the past between us like if i still have picture of us and an albm he give me when we were dating. What should i do?
2006-10-18 05:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by liz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is perfect material for Jerry Springer dear...
2006-10-18 05:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on is hard especially when there right there in front of you constantly. I could be telling you to be happy for them move on. However I can’t tell you how to feel or what to do. It seems he is happy where he is and wants to still have you in his life as a friend, however the time frame you have been with his brother you should have developed some form of love for him in this time, unless you not emotionally available for him. Seeing you EX will bring up old feelings and memories, no one can take that way remember Hinder’s song ‘Lips of an Angel?’
It happens to people who haven’t moved on. I can’t tell you the right or wrong here, no one can advise that. You need to think about your happiness, if you want your relationship to continue with your boyfriend his brother you need to compromise with him. Maybe spend less time near your EX as possible might help your current relationship out. Telling your current boyfriend this will cause a fight, and possible hurt his trust in you, so I advise you don’t do that.
Find out what you want it’s your life your happiness, if you don’t think about that latter in life you will have those moments of ‘what if’.
2006-10-18 05:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, it's normal to think about our ex. Hey, you still had fun with him! Just ask yourself why you are dating his brother, maybe it's not for the right reasons and you may need to move on. If you still want to go out with him then see what it is you liked from your relation with your ex. Maybe some things you did could even be better with your actual boyfriend, maybe you haven't tried all the activities you used to do then.
2006-10-18 05:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't what you should do, but what you should not have done. Dating the brother keeps you in contact with the ex and you still see him. You haven't been away from him to totally get over him. Keep reminding yourself why you broke up with him in the first place and try to keep your distance from your ex. If you can't get past these feelings you could try counseling to find out why you cannot get past these feelings.
2006-10-18 05:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...If you still have feelings for him you've got to talk to him. But if he has a girlfriend and he seems happy, i'd suggest you leave him. If you want to try and get over him, going out with his brother wont help, you need to be away from anything to do with him at all times and think of all the bad things he may have done.
Trust me, it helps.
Good Luck! xox
2006-10-18 05:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by a.boozie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for one why are you dating your exs brother? thats something you should neer do. if anything no dont get back with your ex ou dated his brother already, girl get out da family u need to find love somewhere else. In plus dating between family members is wrong anyways. because in the end they will always join forces and shun you so get out of it while u still can.
2006-10-18 05:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you really want to be honest, you have to break up with his brother. Don't play with people's feelings!
Then you should tell your ex that you still love him!
Honesty is the best thing in this game called : love & realtionships!
Good luck
2006-10-18 05:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ana GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!!!!!!!that is nuts,well if your ex does not care that you are dating his brother maybe he does not care about you,there for you should moveon.why would you even date his brother if you still have feelings for the x?and does your current boyfriend know that?well hey maybe you can have the best of both worlds and have them both,but why would I want to hit my brothers x?oh well good luck
2006-10-18 05:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you are dating your ex's brother is so you can stay close to your ex. This is rdidiculous. Break it off and move on. You are in a state of delusion.
2006-10-18 05:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get rid of the album and then aviod the ex altoghther... you are not going to get over him in anyway by dating his brother. if you still want to be with the brother then you should just try to forget about him and when you start to think about him then you should think about something else. it will help.
2006-10-18 05:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by tribenallchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋