so yea..i really liked this chick, but i just found out that she's a jew!
i dont know what the hell im gonna doooo!!!! help!! what are some important things they do and wutnot???
thanks!!
2006-10-18 05:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by d29061 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Interfaith marriages have a very high divorce rate and that should tell you it is tough. So you should go in with that thought in mind.
You really should have this discussion with her. It is really between you guys rather it can be worked out or not. Just remember, you are not changing her, and she can't change who you are.
2006-10-18 05:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have anything against Jews? If not, go ahead and date her. Do you also have any Jewish male friends, if not, now is the time to get one you can get the low down on the Jewish religion! Or you can pluck up your courage and ask the girl out and that way, when you start getting to know her better, you will begin to understand her religion - and you never know - you can get along very well. Good luck!
2006-10-18 05:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sabre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No~ I'm confused?? She's a person right? Do u even know if she likes you? Jews have their own set of rules just like every religion, but I am not one, so can't help you out on that note, sorry.
2006-10-18 06:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother,
thing is that u have to first look out in ur self what does ur faith say u want a jews girl or not but the love never see the religion and on other hand what i think to do interchange in other religion makes a life of the couple miserable bcoz of different faith and techings
now the choice u have to make just think and aske ur self.....
2006-10-18 05:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by santy_kushwaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused? Jesus said, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father but through me. John 14:6
Are you ready to convert (Judaism)?
Might want to just talk with her about it. Honesty goes a long way :o)
2006-10-18 05:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. Some follow the religion more closely than others. Some are just Jewish because they were born into it and don't follow the religion at all.
2006-10-18 05:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A "Jew" could mean someone who is Jewish by race, it could mean someone who is Jewish by religion, it could mean they are Jewish by race and religion, or it could refer to someone who lives in Israel!
If they are Jewish by religion, the orthodox Jews don't believe in Jesus but the Messianic Jews do believe in Jesus.
You just have to ask her I suppose.
2006-10-18 05:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is kind of creepy. Consider whether you are going to e so focused on her being Jewish that you'll have trouble loving her for just being who she is full of complicated inconsistencies and other fun and interesting stuff that have nothing to do with her being Jewish.
2006-10-18 05:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Love Shepherd 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well are you a racist...?if not accept her for what she is...and read into the jewish belief on the net...but don't you think you should ask her...I am sure she will explain anything you wish to know about...but I really do not think she would appreciate the use of foul language...
2006-10-18 07:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by appleblossom_1957 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go up to this Lady and say, " Hi my name is -----. I'm really curious and need your help. can you explain to me ---------- about your Religious belief system over a --------- ( coke, coffee, tea ). would really appreciate your help. "
this might help break the ice and will also let her know you are wanting to know more about her Religion and her.
2006-10-18 05:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋