she is really nice looking and we have talked several times about kids and spouses. Now she is having problems in her marriage and wants to go out to dinner and talk about it. I'm widowed, but she is getting really pushy about getting to know me alot better! Should I tell her no, or should I pursue this?
2006-10-18 05:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm be careful. She is married and has kids. If she can do this to her family, what makes you think she wont do it to you if you guys ever get together? I'd be careful.....tell her she needs to think about her man and kids and ask her to go see a couple counselor to sort things out between her and her hubby.
2006-10-18 05:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about telling her to settle her marriage relationship before starting a new one if for no other reason than to maintain some respect for marriage.
Why would you want to be close to someone who can't do at least that?
Sounds to me like a woman who can't get an 'O' without the excitement of doing something wrong and getting caught. Imagine having a long-term relationship with someone like that. If that's what you want, well, then you know your answer.
2006-10-18 13:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you aren't ready for anything this "heavy". You should explain this to her and hopefully she'll get the hint. Instead of saying "go out for dinner", try a cup of coffee during the day. it's not as stressfull as a full blown dinner date.. and you can get a better feel for her this way.
good luck!
2006-10-18 12:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it could be a winner.
2006-10-18 13:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have a dinner , is just dinner, know her and
see what happens
2006-10-18 12:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by layjc01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a happy meal take her to a motel (make her pay for both) then pump her and dump her thats what she wants
2006-10-18 12:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by rectal itch 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would not pursue it at all...let time take its course
2006-10-18 12:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋