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I am a founder of a church after been and taught in my fiancee church but right now she want me to be part of her church while i have so many talents to carry on the work of God in the environment i live she is far from me about 560 mile aways in another country

2006-10-18 05:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by Apelete M 1 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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God never call you to run a church & give you a person to contradict that. Both the two of you need to pray & fast to hear Him clearly. Its either you go or she comes to your church. Also is she what God wants for you or is she your picking without God's involvement. Both you two have to walk the same direction to get your marriage to work.

2006-10-18 06:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Well, for now keep going to your church, she can't really expect you to be with her every sunday. And this is an issue that the two of you are going to need to discuss before you get married or there will be some serious tension in your marriage. I suggest you pray too, God might have a different plan for you. Maybe your time at this church is through and God wants you to move on. Best wishes.

2006-10-18 05:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 0 1

You both have to work with each other. There has to be a compromise, you try hers and she tries yours then follow your heart. It might come down to trying a completely different one neither of you are affiliated with and choose that one. One thing I can tell you, get on the same page of which church you will become part of BEFORE you get married. It tears families apart (ironically) I've seen it happen many times. Religion is something you can't expect someone to change after marriage.

2006-10-18 05:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you may could desire to ascertain with a Methodist church to confirm. although, i individually could be careful of any church that would not require a minimum of a few education in the previous receiving the Sacrament of Baptism. It basically is clever that a individual could desire to comprehend what it ability so as that they comprehend what they are agreeing to. As for that 12 months-long subject, because of the fact your fiance is in the militia, there is an benefit, no longer a topic. The Catholic chaplains can strengthen up the approach - they do it for all time. So it may no longer take a 12 months.

2016-10-19 22:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by mchellon 4 · 0 0

Have a long talk and decide where you are going to live that should take care of the problem. Then on occasions go visit your friends for the weekend at the other church.

2006-10-18 06:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Just Askin' 3 · 0 0

That makes no sense. Worry about changing after you are married. You obviously cannot travel 560 miles.

2006-10-18 05:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by AuroraDawn 7 · 2 0

!i guess offer help by opening a website that links your church with hers you can open great doors and build a bridge between your church and hers you can have thoughts for the day ,share sermons prayers and your congregations can communicate with each other and maybe join together resources and fund amazing missions all churches united under him wow sounds like allot of power to do great things in his name ahhhhhhhhhh the possibilities .

2006-10-18 05:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0 0

You founded a church??? You can't even write.
Why don't you just change the rules of your church so that your fiancee will want to join it? I mean, you founded it--you can make up whatever rules you want, can't you?

2006-10-18 05:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

First you two must decide where you are going to live. Then you can figure out where to go to church.

2006-10-18 05:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0 0

Go with your heart....... and relationships have always been about compromise...one or the other always have to give in.. and I really believe this is something you should be discussing with her....no one else can make your decisions for you ...except you and she....

2006-10-18 07:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by appleblossom_1957 2 · 0 0

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