What should i do? The sister is much more mature and we get along easy.
2006-10-18 05:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by jlau_hn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude that is sick
2006-10-18 05:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Juan C 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You do not state your age. If you are under 30 then 10 years is a big spread and it may not be the best for either of you. If she is under 18, back off and don't touch.
You say LOVE. How do you know it is love and not infatuation, lust, desire or companionship. Love is a strong word. It is much more that the other three.
You need to get out the pen and paper. You need to evaluate this relationship and the one you have with the sister. Once you see the situation on paper it can clear up things in your mind. But in this case you should not even keep seeing the older sister because you do not care at all for her since you are interested in the younger one. Write her off and let her down in a nice but furm way. Get it over. Now look at the sister and see what the match is. Sure she may be persuing you, many sisters are rivals and take pleasure in getting what the other one has.
GEt the pen out and start writing. What you like about her, what you don't like about her and how you match and how you don't match. What is there to look forward too? How would her parents feel? How would you feel if you find she is not as mature as you think she is (girls can disceive you)?
You have alot to think about. I don't care how good she looks to you if you do not think she is the perfect match your soul mate then move on. You need the right partner for the long term.
2006-10-18 12:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is a tough one.
After going out with your girlfriend her younger sister is off limits. And seing as its 10 years difference i dont think its such a good idea.
Because she will see you as a perv and so will your girlfriend so just leave things the way they are.
Try talking to her sister when you get a spare moment alone, to see how she feels about you. But if you get a bad reaction, there is no doubt you will be out of both their lifes.
2006-10-18 12:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by a.boozie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool you jets turbo,if you like the younger sister and she you.thats a risk hurting the older one.but ifthe younger one is illegal ,thats just wrong.you cant have anyone you want if big bubba andthe gang is havng you in prison.
2006-10-18 12:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by c20_6929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be silly if u got ur gf then why are u hanging around her sister its better for u to saty away with her and concentrat on wt u have if not u will loose everything and left with empty handed
2006-10-18 12:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by santy_kushwaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your girlfrined and her sister alone. Break up and getout of the whole thing because you are going to really screw something up. OR Put it all out there on the table break up with her and tell her and her sister why and leave up to them.
2006-10-18 12:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jax 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
find someone else... you will eventually pursue the one that you like more... Its NOT the age difference that is of concern...its that you are trying to work the whole family. Thats not good...
***Just make sure that you dont scream out her name when you and your girlfriend are getting it on... that would be horrible****
2006-10-18 12:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm.....well, if the u two being together means to get in trouble with the law, don't do it. but if not, dump her older sister, and get with her.oh ya, don't get between her and her sister.....cuz if u do...trust me, it will be bad. good luck
2006-10-18 12:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats sad, i would say for everybody concerned,lock the door and move on,
2006-10-18 12:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see her on the side till the older one dumps you and then you are in like Flynn
2006-10-18 12:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
get rid of one...........go get the other......as long as the "10 years difference" in age........isnt something that violates laws.
2006-10-18 12:41:41 · answer #11 · answered by purefire41 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋