like in class room two boys behind u .one of them ask if the other would fu** u ? loudl that u really should hear but the girl that really heard this told she didn't heared it so what should i do and how she is probably feeling about this? cos she was in tears then and that friend laughed but said yes ;d so dunno is this bad or not M? we are teens age 15-16 if something depends on that...
2006-10-18 05:34:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
omg u need to apologize! she probably feels terrible! that was sooo not cool dude. if i were you, i'd NEVER say anything like THAT again.
2006-10-18 13:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by hey heather. =] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well young man, you owe this girl a serious apology. Don't care if you are 15 or 16 by that age you should have learned some manners and to say that loud enough for other people to hear let alone say it is
downright nasty. Would you like it if she said something derogatory about you? Didn't think so. Remember, "What tangled webs we weave". Be careful of you're language all your F's will get you into trouble. refrain from them. Even in school that is Sexual Harassment not just workplaces.
2006-10-18 08:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel offened and greatly appreciate an apology for it. If you don't have the nerve to say you're sorry than you shouldn't have had the nerve to say anything at all. Man up - you're obviously feeling bad about it and you should.
2006-10-18 07:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This could be considered sexual harrassment, so I recommend that you boys don't talk about stuff like that anymore because you could get into real trouble. Besides, it's inappropriate.
I think it would be best to talk to the girl in private and say that you are sorry you said that and ask for her forgiveness.
And please don't give in to the societal pressure that encourages men to see women as sexual objects. Using people for their bodies is selfish, inappropriate, and destructive.
2006-10-18 14:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she had been more poised, she would have turned, fixed them each with a cold look and said "Never in a million years."
Then reported them to school authorities for sexual harassment.
It was unspeakable rude to have this conversation. Even though you are teens.
2006-10-18 12:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gee......your gonna make a a great catch for some one....NOT...
you need too learn to grow up....keep your opinions too your self...
be the better man and don't feed into your friends idea of "funny"..
she was probably crying over the idea that a couple morons like that would want to f*ck her in the first place...i know i would.....
also keep in mind that now a days that's sexual harassment....how would you like to explain that to your mother ???? she'd be real proud ,huh?
there is a difference in being a boy and being a man.....you need to "man" up.
2006-10-18 05:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by krnsspott 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
What you did is sexual harassment, and you are playing with fire. It could lead to suspension, messing up your permanent record. If that hasn't happened, thank your lucky stars, apologize to her, and just for good measure, tell your parents or someone else whose respect you'd like to have. Then earn it back.
2006-10-18 05:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her that your sorry. Nobody likes to be objectified. How would you like it if she asked a personal question about you and your manhood in front of a group of people? You wouldn't.
2006-10-18 05:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It would embarrass me,humiliate me & disgust me all at the same time..As well as disgust towards those involved saying it...Your old enough to know what to do & the right thing to do..I wouldn't hesitate if I were you..
2006-10-18 05:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would apoloigize to the girl for my foolish behaivor.
2006-10-18 05:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋