my wife wants to experience going to a swinging club or cinema where she can be the attention of others.Should I let her go
2006-10-18 05:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by ukcpl54 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My wife and I have gone to many swing clubs for years. It can be a lot of fun. I would suggest you go with her and not her alone.
2006-10-18 10:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her to go? Does she want you to go with her?
If you are not okay with it than she should respect your feelings. One of the big rules of successful swinging is "if it doesn't work for either one of you, than it doesn't work for both of you." So if either one of you is not comfortable with the idea, than it's game-off for both of you. And the other has to respect that. That is what marriage is all about.
Swinging is not about manipulating or coercing your spouse into doing something they are not comfortable with. Whether it's experienced swingers and a particular situation or sex act, or couples just talking about trying it. If both of you aren't on board with it, than it just won't work.
2006-10-19 01:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have all the luck! Go with her and enjoy!
2006-10-18 12:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by gittit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not only let her go you should go with her.
2006-10-18 12:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh watch out
2006-10-18 12:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by lschuylerl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does it make you feel on knowing this? don't let her go alone....go with her!
2006-10-18 19:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Why don't you take her and enjoy it with her.
2006-10-18 12:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you'll regret it.
2006-10-18 15:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋