i have a boyfriend and hes saying that he loves me and he wants to be with me for all of life, but i know it wont happen coz im a teenager but i love him so much i cant explain. i'd do anything at all for him, and he cares so much about me , but what happens when wer break up? what will i do? he says he doesnt want to but i know it will have to happen! what can i do?
2006-10-18 05:14:42 · 10 answers · asked by Xxsarah. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find some one else...this time better and of your own choice.
2006-10-18 05:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by jay s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Sweetie. You shouldn"t focus so much on what is going to happen if you guys break up. You should really be focused on what your relationship is like right now. If you continue to worry, then your relationship will go down hill really fast. You should be happy that you are with him. And you have to trust what the man says. If you says that he wants to be with you, then take him for his word. Remember that trust is the bases for every relationship. Without trust you have nothing.
Then if you guys do break up, you will be ok. Life still continues to go on. After my first true love and I broke up I was devastated. But when I turned on the TV, I saw people laughing and having a good time. I thought to myself, "Self, you are not the only one who has broke up with some they really loved. It happens every day. Now put the ice cream, candies, and chips up, get off your bum, go shower, call your friends, and go out and have a good time. You won't regret it." So I did. And I found my best friend and I couldn't be happier. I am saying that it was not hard, because it was. There were so many sleepless nights, lots of tears cried and a bunch of sugar consumed. But life goes on. Just focus on the time you guys have together. Cross the other bridge when you get there. SMILE
2006-10-18 12:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by good drummer bad guitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....2 things. first of all, you don't know it will end for sure. yes you are young/teenager, but i know a lot of couple who have been married for years and years, and they were high-school sweethearts or each other's first loves. that can and does still happen, so have faith in that. but you are true, it can and may happen that the two of you break-up. i was in the same situation. i was so madly in love with my boyfriend, and while i thought it was it, he was THE one, i kind of knew in the back of my mind that it would eventually end, and WHAT the heck would i do? It hurts and it's terrible. but you deal with it. i had to move across country--literally 1300 miles away, so i wouldnt ever see him or run into him somwhere. just enjoy the moment and the love that you have now, but hopefully it makes you stronger and you can learn more about yourself, and how to survive being alone if that ever happens.
2006-10-18 12:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice for this kinda thing is take it day by day. Being in love is a WONDERFUL thing, no matter what your age. In the end you will be able to look back and smile because you know you gave him your all, with no regrets or what if's...
2006-10-18 12:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jus_call_me_6lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you dooming the relationship? i've heard of alot of relationships that start at junior high age and last for good. you just never know, so don't dwell on it, just live your life and see where it goes. if it ends, you will be ok, life goes on and it might be one of the best experiences you ever had.
2006-10-18 12:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...if both of you truly love each other, why shouldn't it last? If you're certain it will not last, than you must be doubting your love for one another.
2006-10-18 12:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by girls_role_model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking so negative, and think more positive, your destroying each day you have with him, by thinking bad thoughts. if it happens it happens, then deal with it.why worry now.
2006-10-18 12:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think it will end? if he loves you enough and you love him enough to wanna be with him for the rest of your life you will....thats the way it works...
2006-10-18 12:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by hannahgirl333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not last long with that attitude, you should be more positive and think that it could last forever
2006-10-18 12:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it.....when it happens, u will know what to do. don't be so nervous
2006-10-18 12:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋