My boyfreind calls me every morning before he goes to work, he comes by my house before he heads to his house on his lunch break and after his break before he heads back to work, when i am at work when he gets off of work he comes by my job to tell me he is off of work or to my house if i am off that day. He calls me every night before he goes to bed. Does this mean he is in love with me?
2006-10-18 05:09:17 · 31 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey think about it he is deeplly in love wih you i would love to have a guy like that. hope this is good
2006-10-18 05:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by me! myself! and guys! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it means he needs to get a life. I mean what kind of jobs do you have where you have enough time to do all of this? Really if he loves you its because he decided to do so, not by keeping tabs on you 24-7. The sad thing is in our society it is OK to change your mind constantly, so he could decided not to love you tomorrow. So my thoughts are if you enjoy this person, be grateful for the time you have together, but know that it may end any time no matter what he says so don't sweat it. Know what you know and enjoy. If he is getting on your nerves constantly checking in, tell him...if he keeps on...tell him to hit the bricks....
2006-10-18 12:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by outlook0330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is very commited to you and the relationship. Be careful though- this much contact could make you want to see him less. I would make sure I still had my own life without having him around 24/7. You will know he loves you by the simple, sweet things he does.
Good luck!
2006-10-18 12:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, he just might be keeping tabs on you.
Do you also spend time together outside of these little visits daily?????
How long have you been together???
Has he said the L word to you? Or you to him????
There has to be more shared between 2 people than drop ins and calls before you know it is love......
2006-10-18 12:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Hon, but it sounds like he's a little obsessed. His too-frequent visits have little to do with his real feelings for you. He might--and I said "might"--visit you often because he's insecure and checking up on you. Love, true love is not measured by behaviors such as this.
2006-10-18 12:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hemingway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to say, No. This type of possessive behavior does not necessarily mean love. It's more typical of insecurity, than of love. He may still be in love with you, but this behavior does not necessarily constitute love, and that's what you're asking.
2006-10-18 12:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by TechnoRat60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, this can be taken 2 ways. Either he is completely smitten with you or he is VERY possesive. Does he question your whereabouts? Who you are with? If he does then he can become dangerous. If not then you have a attentive guy who just wants to spend time with you!! Proceed with caution.
2006-10-18 12:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's actually suspicious because he contacts you at such odd times. My money says that you are the 'other woman' He calls you to keep you around, but is actually living another life.
2006-10-18 12:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by panthrosbulge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not in love... then he's really really insecure and has to know your where abouts at all times. But it sounds like love! =)
2006-10-18 12:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes- It sounds like he is in love with you.
2006-10-18 12:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋