I have this friend who i have met up with a few times as friends but i like him as more than a friend! The sad thing is he has a girlfriend, but he has told me that if he didn't have a girlfriend he could see himself falling for me! We have become quite close friends and i talk to him nearly everyday and he never mentions his girfriend. Does anybody think he likes me? What should i do?
2006-10-18 05:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by a.boozie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a woman. What he does to her he'll do to you. How would you feel if you have a man and you knew some woman was actively pursing him KNOWING you are there. It's very disrespectful. We need more real women in this world, not little girls. Please take the respectable route!
2006-10-18 05:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just saying that for you can leave him alone because im going threw the same thing but we did alot more stuff together but i think u should just not believe anything that hes says cuz maybe he is lie to make u fall for him more thinking that he can wrap u around his finger cuz the boy i like so much haves a gf 2 since yesterday and i been told him how i feel but he told me he dont feel the same and its hurts so i think u should move on i know its really hard im trying it myself but its best that a guy who have a gf say he might fall for u cuz the boy i like said the samething 2 me 3 months ago and he lied to me cuz i dont see noting happen yet so i think hes trying to led you on plz dont fall for it cuz well if u do ur just going to get hurt like i just did and being hurt isn't the best thing so maybe u should just for get it and if he keeps sayting that well that tell him 2 prove it because speak louder then words so trust me if u dont want to get hurt like i did cuz being hurt omg its the worst pain.
2006-10-18 12:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by njsweetheart69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seek mature type of love...
I guess he is not the right guy. The grass alway look greener next door.
Imagine he will be doing the same thing to another girl when he is with you. Can you trust him 100% when both of you are together? if not, better dont go ahead and stop receiving his call. It may hurt in short term but long term wise you stand to gain.
2006-10-18 12:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should let him make the decision if he wants to stay with his girlfriend or not. Don't go trying to be with him when he has a girlfriend because I know if that was happening to me, I would be kicking some major assage. If he wants to be with you, really, he will leave his girlfriend and come be with you.
Good luck.
2006-10-18 12:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by вєαυтìƒυℓ тяαɠєᗪγ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well leave him alone other than being a "friend" he already has a girlfriend and the reason he probably hasn't mentioned her is because he is being kind to your feelings ... If he really wanted to be with you and not her he would have already broken up with her and he would be with you now...right?
2006-10-18 12:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As to wheter or not he likes you, how on Gods green earth would any of us know that? It is apparent that you like him but he is taken now so you should keep the relationship at a friendship level until he is available. Dont go wrecking someone elses relationship, you would not want that done to you. Always best to do unto others as you would have done to you.
2006-10-18 12:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to build your relationship on lies and cheating then go for it. If you have any self respect leave him alone and let him decide to dump the girl and then pursue you. The way it is now he has you taking all the risk and he can always go back to her if you don't work out. Don't you deserver better?
2006-10-18 12:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mark S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy really wants you but y wuld u want 2 get with him when he has a girlfriend bcoz if u do n yall get serious hez ujs gonna do the same to u with another girl...unless u jus wanna chow him n b out...best of luck
2006-10-18 12:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by aycee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does like you but think of this. If he is willing to let go of his current girl then what makes you think he wont do it to you? Just food for thought.
cheers darlin
2006-10-18 12:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a gf . ignore that feeling til he breaks with her . but best if he did not do that for ya . cos you'll indirectly be a relationship breaker ... but then best of luck to you .... hope you two will have a happi relationship . =)
2006-10-19 08:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by precious moments babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋