I know it's sacred grounds... never touch your friend's girl. I've waited, believe me... for four years. Every time I see another girl, all I can think about is Her. How can I forget her or should I continue sitting, waiting, wishing?
2006-10-18 04:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Maverick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been there and done that. You must suffer in silence, as hard as it is. Sorry.
2006-10-18 04:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever you do, don't sit around waiting and wishing. I'm sure you've heard the old saying, "There's someone for everyone", so I'm not going to cram that down your throat. The point is, sometimes that right someone for you could be "off limits". The real choice you have to make is whether or not being with this girl is worth losing a good friend, because you will surely lose him if you make that leap. Either way, life is too short and far too precious to sit around debating on what to do. Act or don't act now and move on!
2006-10-18 11:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i feel so bad for you that is one hard thing to live with lemme tell ya. ive been through the same thing but with my best friends boyfriend. its hard to deal with but you can't really do anything. wait around a while and maybe if they break up then you wait a couple months then talk to your friend about how you feel about her and see if they care if you ask them out or something. but it takes alot of time and stuff so i would be very careful if i were you.
2006-10-18 11:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go after his girl you will lose your friend forever, period. So you better make sure the girl is worth it.
Does she even like you like that, because that's a huge risk to take when you might not even get the girl.
But also remember, would you want to date a girl who would break your friends heart.
Unless she is sending you clear signals I wouldn't even think about it. Even then I probably woundn't do it.
Good love is hard to find, but so are good friends.
2006-10-18 11:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know i am in a similaur situation with my best friends 'crush' they aren't dating yet but i know they like each other i too have waited for 4 years, and i would wait if you believe in your heart that this is the person for you then you shouldnt let them pass you by...despite the obsticles in your way true love is hard to come by, man i feel for you because i know how you feel...if you ever want to talk about it let me know :)
2006-10-18 12:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Advice Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, if he is really your friend. Sometimes somethings look better bcause it is not yours, so if you really had her you may not really want her. You just want the persona of something that is untouchable. Look toward the women who do not think of as your type and you may just find that she has been right there all along and it is not your friends girlfriend.
2006-10-18 11:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
o bad juju. if you said u have been waiting for years it doesnt look like it will happen anytime soon for you guys. i think maybe once u let open and find someone else u may forget about her.
2006-10-18 12:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they still together? and if so.. I think it's best to stay away.. best friend or not.. I dont think it's right to move in on someone elses boyfriend or girlfriend.
2006-10-18 11:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my good friend's boyfriend.the thing is i'm his best girl Friend too(not lover!).curious abt the answers this question will get,hopefully.they will be good! Best of luck! ;)
2006-10-18 11:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya you should really let it go, its not worth it beating yourself up like this. you gona lose more than you could gain
2006-10-18 12:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by sexy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋