met this guy few weeks ago have been texting alot and met him 3 times, yesterday we were texting and felt like he was off a bit with me so i asked if he wanted to see me again that i rather he be straight with me and he said he did but wasn't going to be around for 2 weeks that'a all. is he letting me down gently. i gave him every chance to say he didn't want to met again.
2006-10-18 04:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you not think you were cornering him, i do........
2006-10-18 04:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked where he's going for 2 weeks?
Maybe he's a bit worried that your blow him off because he has to go away for 2 weeks?
Do you know him through friends of friends or something like that? If so then ask what’s going on - but don't seem like your snooping around after him, word might get back.
Have you been straight forward with him? Have you asked if he’s loosing interest – actually don’t do that, he might feel pressurised, like you want to know everything and now.
Actually, give it 2 weeks, text him once or twice, after that, no more (keep your self respect).
It will all become clear in two weeks – good luck.
2006-10-18 12:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by professionalprocrastination 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's interested.
The 2 weeks is a thing that he might be away for or busy doing. If you trust the guy you can say you can hit things off.
He can also be one of those guys who dates more than one girl at the same time before he gets serious with one of them. This is something you will have to find out on your own mate.
2006-10-18 11:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may still want relationship so if you are still interested in him after the 2 weeks then text him. Makesure he gets the text. If he doesn't reply then he is not interested so you will have to move on.
2006-10-18 11:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will be fine. if he didnt want to see you again he would have already done it! hes a guy remember. its only gals that let ppl down lightly. u should be fine. just relax and count down the days of 2 weeks!
2006-10-18 13:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by [<3] ellie [<3] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no relationship going is there really.... If he wanted to see you, he would make more of an effort... seems to me he is keeping you on the back burner, as a just in case things dont work out with someone else... Keep in touch ifyou want, but dont hold your breath. Get out and enjoy yourself... and if you meet someone else who is keen, go for it! DONT HANG ABOUT...
2006-10-18 11:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Warmnjuicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you to back off a bit. Prob a typical commitment phobe bloke. I would ignore him and let him do a bit of the chasing.
2006-10-18 11:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by A Nonymiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can only do one thing at a time. He will be busy doing one thing for a couple of weeks. Remember that only women can multi-task. Men are like donkeys and can only do one thing at a time. Adjust your thinking cap.
2006-10-18 11:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! hes just going away for a week thats it! dont worry bout it after the 2 weeks you will both be fine again just u see!
2006-10-18 11:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by x millie x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really is going away for 2 weeks.......don't read so much into it.
You gave him the chance to let you down and he didn't......RELAX.
2006-10-18 11:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing if you pressure him to say he don't want to be with you, he may just take you up on that. Be secure and just go with it.
2006-10-18 11:54:00 · answer #11 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋