we were together all loved up..... he spoke to me all the time on the phone... used to say he cant sleep unless he hears my voice.... i would throw small tantrums he would say he loves them in arguments he likes to talk things threw... one week he got really busy with work - not much time for me i would txt he not respond he said he'd make it up to me i said ok... but when we spoke i told him i felt upset - got carried away n said i don’t want him- quickly said didn’t mean it - just upset. he said no its over! we haven’t spoken i txt n called him two weeks ago no response... what happened?
2006-10-18 04:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you ever actually met him? Not trying to be mean but I can tell you why this happened to you if you never met
If you never met then basically he got either bored or frustrated by not being able to actually see you, hold you etc..and decided it wasn't worth the frustration and pain anymore.
2006-10-18 04:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by geom1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little drama can add spice, but if you are always trying for your next Oscar, it can get kinda old- fast. Contrary to popular belief, guys are also looking for that special someone. Every time you throw a little tantrum, he is thinking about the future... Are you going to fly off the handle and beat the kids over spilled macaroni?... Are you going to burst into his office screaming and crying when he has to work late?....
When you start throwing the "I don't want you anymore" at him, he is thinking about the future of that too. Once you say it the first time, it gets easier to say each time after... and soon you actually mean it. A guy doesn't want to commit to a girl who is going to bail on him when things get tough... Boys need love too.
2006-10-18 11:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by baby_girl_8881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of things could have happened. Maybe by saying that, he got upset and truly thought you didn't want him anymore and being a man, got upset, and got stubborn and stuck it. Just keep trying to call him and if he still won't respond, well move on and look for someone who will take your tantrums and not allow you to get carried away.
2006-10-18 11:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry pet but it seems he's looking for a way out. I tell you this, don't get all mushy and start begging him to call so you can claim the credit of having dumped him. Send him a 'once and 4 all text' that says "bug off, i dont miss you anyway" and you'll see his reaction.
2006-10-18 11:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by ndy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omggggg thi is exactly what happened to me and my gf but OPPOSITE...we would speak all the time on the ...i would tell her i cant sleep unless i hear her voice...one week SHE got busy and I was upset and call her a *****...she has now not responded for 10 days....we should hookup and talk about love! we would understand each other LOL....you know my email...
2006-10-18 11:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he broke up with you..maybe he's just been busy, but it sounds like your little tantrums drove him away
2006-10-18 11:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Becca P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was looking for an easy way out, and you provided the opportunity.
2006-10-18 11:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was looking for a way out and he is using your mistake to end it. this way he doesnt have to feel like the bad guy
2006-10-18 11:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he kinda broke up wit u.
2006-10-18 11:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
???!! sorry not getting.......i hope u will get the better ans.....!
2006-10-18 11:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by equrab s.a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋