When i went ice skating i met a really fit lad called Oliver. As soon as we started going out hes been pestering for sex. He is 16 and im 15, i think im too young for sex yet but what do you think??
Should i or Shouldnt i?? If i dont he might dump me or if i do knowing my luck i'll get pregnant!
2006-10-18 04:19:00 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes u are..too young
2006-10-18 04:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, Go with your best judgement which is not to have sex. If he dumps you then let him dump you. It's better that he dumps you now then you doing something you will regret, or worse by getting pregnant, or having some type of STD. Never let any guy talk you into having sex when you clearly don't want to. You are too young for sex right now, and there is a lot of responsibilty that comes with having sex. You are making a wise choice so follow your heart with this and do the right thing.Your smarter than a lot of girls your age when it comes to sex. Keep it that way until your old enough and your ready for it.
2006-10-18 04:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are....WAY too young for sex. It should be something two people who care deeply about each other (if not love each other) do and BOTH should want it.
If he dumps you just because you won't sleep with him, then he doesn't deserve you. I'd actually wait if I were you. It's not worth ruining something that could be wonderful!
Plus, if you wait a few more years, you could meet someone who not only truly deserves you and cares about you, but has some experience and will make the experience even better for you!
I'd dump HIM if I were you! How immature of him! Honestly!
Consider it carefully!
2006-10-18 04:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by prettytallgirl30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are to young. You are not to young to enjoy it or to perform it, but you are to young to grasp the true concept behind it. It will destroy even the best relationship if the relationship is not ready for it. Give it time, and when you are older and in a serious relationship, and have though out all of the consequences of your actions, then you can decide whats best for the relationship. You can't possibly understand this yet. It is a truly awesome and powerful part of life, and its an awesome feeling. But you don't want to have this feeling with any one except your soul mate. Good luck. Think thoroughly, and act slow.
2006-10-18 04:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by 2ndammendmentsupporter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, you are too young.
When you said, "Should i or Shouldnt i??"- sweetheart, you answered your own question. These are your words, not mine: "i think im too young for sex yet..."
Now onto, "If i dont he might dump me..." But you have to ask yourself THIS too, if you do, does that in some way guarantees that he will not dump you? Of course not. So when you make this final decision sweetie, make sure you are making it for YOURSELF and not for someone else. And when you say, "i think im too young for sex...", there is your answer! ;-)
Oh and hun, some people DO get pregnant their FIRST time, even with protection.
Just promise me you will think about it. You are too nice of a girl to let some guy take advantage of you. Once you 'give' yourself in this way babe, you cannot EVER, ever ever have that back.
2006-10-18 04:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by AGirl2Friendly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, if you're asking a bunch of strangers for advise of whether to have or not sex, then you are way too young & you're not ready!!!this kid, being 16 is only looking forward to being with you intimately (sexually), he doesn't want anything else. If he is pestering you for sex, you need to tell him how you really feel, let him know that you're not ready & watch his reaction. If he dumps you, then you'll know for a fact that that was all he wanted if he has feelings for you & cares about you, then he'll stop & wait until you're ready. Please don't do something you'll regret later, wait until you fall in love, trust me, you'll know when that happens.
2006-10-18 04:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lil'MissSnshne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly youre only 15 and u shuld wait ive went thru it im 16 almost 17 now ive been with my bf for 3 years after 1 and a half years we started having sex and now we have a little boy together if you really feel hes the right one use protection but your best bet would be to wait til you find the right person
2006-10-18 04:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, do you realize, that just because he is asking you for it does not mean you have to give it? And what is so wrong with him dumping you? I mean he is obviously after one thing and one thing only. He doesn't really care about you and if he did, he wouldn't ask you for sex 24/7 like that. So be the mature one and end it with him. Because your repuation will be most hurt if he ends up getting you pregnant. You would be rather shocked how fast kids call pregnant girls and friends sluts and other bad words for getting pregnant. Don't put yourself in that situation. Ever.
2006-10-18 04:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do it before you're ready, you will be paying for it, for a long long time.
There's something else you should know, at any age, not just when you're 15. If a man does leave you, just because you won't have sex with him right away, that tells you sex was all he was after in the first place.
A man who is serious about you will only become more interested, if he has to work at earning your affections.
2006-10-18 04:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!!! You're 15 years old and most people don't have sex until their mid twenties! (the responsable ones anyway!) Don't throw away your life for some idiot with nothing going for him! Unless you really feel you want to spend the rest of your life with him and you'll be happy then don't do it! Don't even do it if you DO want to marry him! I can't even believe you have to ask about this... SAY NO OR RISK YOUR LIFE FOR A WILD NIGHT!!!! Who knows how many diseased girls this guy has picked up and what kind of STD's he has! If you do it you'll regret it forever and you know it!
2006-10-18 04:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by HoTbOd sWiMmeR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't he might dump you.. If you do, he might dump you.
Against my better judgement, I'm going to say don't do it. You don't have to give in to pressure, and you don't have to because you think 'everybody else is'.
Everybody else lies to try to fit in, and the best thing you can do is to wait until YOU think you are ready, not whether a bunch of people online think you are ready.
This year, next year, or in several years when you give in, be safe. If he says he's not wearing a condom, tell him he's not getting any. Bottom line.
2006-10-18 04:40:16 · answer #11 · answered by thatoneguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋